Okay this guy used to call me all the time and just out of the blue he hasn't been calling me and giving me the attention as before. Why is that? Im not clingy and I don't call him all the time. I give him as much space as possible. It is driving me crazy. Why the sudden change from one day to the next.
2007-03-26 10:58:33 · 25 answers · asked by razzle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who knows for sure? Maybe he met someone else or he's just been busy. You could call him you know.
2007-03-26 11:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting dynamics in this question. You say you are not clingy and you should be proud of this fact. Perhaps he felt, however, you weren't interested. I know a few guys that are really hot on certain gals but won't pursue them at all because they won't take the risk if rejection...one guy in particular says he never asks a gal out, he always waits for the woman. Let this guy know that you are interested, but you're not a "chaser". Let him take it from there. You have nothing to loose.
2007-03-26 11:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he gave up or realized that he wanted something else. Or maybe he's practicing the fact that "absence makes the heart grow fonder". Because he's gone you'll miss him like you are, and you'll be the one calling for him and making the effort. or maybe he felt that he was being too clingy so he stopped. The possibilities to your question are endless the only way to know is to ask him
2007-03-26 11:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he didnt think things where moving in a direction that he wanted, we assume they know what we are thinking, but really they are just as confused as us, he probably doesnt think you are too bothered, maybe he doesnt want too much space, id call him and tell him you would like to think that you both have a future...relationship, then you'll get your answer, and if not then you can move on.
2007-03-26 11:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by natc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of the fact the type that does that are assholes. They ae attempting to be gamers. they want to get interior your head so they'd have extra impact over you. And curiously for you, its working. They try this because of the fact they understand you will ask your self why they do those issues, and thats an illustration they are on your head. That and that they dont want to get too close. examine: dedication. in the event that they get too on the threshold of you they are going to be traped and cant pass around doing that comparable enjoying on different women persons.
2016-11-23 17:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by drabek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't try to understand men. What goes on in guys heads. One day there looking at wedding rings with you and the next there want to leave you. Your doing everything right its him. He's a jack *** and all men are pigs.
2007-03-26 11:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Hot asain mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he has a lot of things going on in his life. Or he may be doing a lot of work. You can't always think that we forget you just because we don't call as often. I hate to admit it, but us guys can get distracted so easily.
2007-03-26 11:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by anthony c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's possible he's seeing if you are worth pursuing. Try calling him and seeing what's going on. If he's been busy then okay, but if he has found someone else...
2007-03-26 11:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by Lillian M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is insecure, and doesn't know how to tell you that he has a new girlfriend. I'll bet you are beautiful, funny and intelligent, and will have no problem finding a mature young man to be with. Move on.
2007-03-26 11:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not putting out. This sort of behavior tends to make guys become disinterested.
2007-03-26 11:00:53 · answer #10 · answered by jimmyb20032003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋