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i am a girl who is known as an "innocent girl" - i'm very reserved and nice and cute....


well, thats only my reputation - and in my town, that is what you need to be. but really i did some stuff with a guy. i really loved the guy, but we both changed and somewhere along the line i stopped loving him. i told him, and he took it well... at first... but now he's threatening to tell the whole school - the whole town about what we did together if he hears that i like another guy or if i kiss another guy or anything!


i cant have my reputation turned from being innocent to a slut. people will stop being friends with me and will look down on me. my family wont understand and it will be a whole mess.


also, i cant have him rule my life! he shouldnt be in charge of my life like this!


what do i do? if he tells people then my life is really ruined. i wont be able to show my face at school or anywhere. what do i do? please help me.

2007-03-26 10:56:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Frist off he doesn't have the control. He is taking advantage of the fact that you let your reputation rule you. Simple as that. Another thing is that this guy seems like one heck of a little kid. I mean what kind of a fella was he to turn around and throw this drama your way? I ask this because of the fact that something like this type of blackmail is just plain juvinele and immature. Besides in the great realm of reputations the reason you should be concerned is if he is held higher then you. I mean you could just dein the things he says about you and maybe accept a few things so you don't seem like a complete liar. Ether way its not good to let some "rep" rule your life, its better to learn now that the only opioins that you care about is from the people that care enough to know who the heck you really are.

2007-03-27 02:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0 0

i might in all possibility sue you for damages, much less forgive you, and that i might think of you're psycho. you have in all possibility shattered his have confidence in women. i've got confidence sorry for his destiny ladies. yet this replaced right into a good gaining understanding of journey for him. He do not have shared his passwords in the 1st place. in case you have found out and experience undesirable, pass on and attempt lower back. If not, end relationship people if you're going to cut back to rubble their lives once you wreck up. because of the fact not in basic terms is it incorrect, you're gonna come around the incorrect guy sometime and the two he's going to sue you, or kill you.

2016-10-20 00:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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