im a male 18 years old and i love my girlfriend very much but my emotions tord her dont seem that way i dont know whats wrong i wanna love her like i used to but its hard. can bi polar be the cause of this? she also got put in jail about 6 weeks ago and ive only gotten to see her once since. plz help.
2007-03-26 10:53:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are realizing that relationships at that age are never love, its called hormones. And you will learn what love is, later in life after some experience.
2007-03-26 10:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by gsxr650 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you didnt fall out of love in one day. I think thats impossible. Loving someone is extremely deep its feeling like they make you a better person. They are the reason you want to wake up the person you think about before sleeping and the person you yearn to see while your away. Love is just crazy deep. You can't just switch up. I strongly believe that you never loved her to begin with. Maybe you were very much attracted to her as the person that she is. But once you saw her bad side (jail) you were completely turned off and decided that you couldn't handle it. and no i dont believe you are bi-polar. You are just not feeling as strongly as you once did. Word to the wise. don't force your self to feel a certain way if deep down you know you dont. Even though you want to love her, it doesnt mean that you do. If you feel your self getting emotionally distant.... i think you know the end is near for your relationship. you can't fake a interest
2007-03-26 18:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your eighteen and six weeks is like an eternity for you. Bipolar is only in play if you are seeing it in other areas of your life. Maybe you just don't have the feelings you used to have but are holding on because it is charted territory that you are familiar with. You need to figure it out and if you find you are no longer in love with your gf you need to cut her lose so that you both can find happiness elsewhere.
2007-03-26 17:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just thought you loved her...its possible..and just because your feelings change doesn't mean your are bi polar..period...and maybe you are thinking so much about it that maybe you are missing that fact that you still do love her
2007-03-26 17:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by jackichanrules13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe after she got out of jail you just relized that you did love her but you were not in love with her ! and i think you are trying to uch to love some one when they will find you! and jail is stupid.. what kinda of crime did she do.... i can only amagine !
2007-03-26 17:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by {to cloose is close enough} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In jail! Lose her! I wonder why you dont feel the same!
2007-03-26 17:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by ~Happy~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you cant just fall out of love, it just meens you were naver in love
2007-03-26 17:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by vallan1015 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋