I found a number?

Question

I was going through my boyfriends mechanical book that he takes to school with him he was showing me the drawings he did in his book. As I turned to a page a piece of paper was in it with a phone number written by a girl named whitney. My boyfriend was taking a night class and it was written on one of his papers I dont know how to confront him on it or what to think please help

Answer 1

just be honest about how you found the number. you weren't snooping or being secretive when you were looking through the book. tell him that the paper fell out when you turned the page and were curious about why he would have another girls number. There could be any number of reasons why that would make sense if its only school related, but make sure when he is answering you that you watch his expressions and eye contact with you. My ex who was cheating on me with various people had a problem with eye contact when he was lying and his ears turned red or he would get really defensive and that for him was a for sure sign that he was lying.

Answer 2

no this is what you do, you hold the number and check his phone to see if he is calling her or if she is call him. if she is or if he is calling her then you confront him. if you dont see his number on his phone or the bill then dont worry about it, why turn a small thing into something thats not a big deal. maybe he doesnt even know aboutthe number , maybe the girl just slipped the number in his book without him knowing. dont make a big issue out of this or it will be a big turn off for him and it will make you look like a fol in the end. good luck.

Answer 3

Call her in a private number, just see how she sounds like. She can be counselor or a teacher. Saves you from embarrassment. Cause if she's the other girl then you're not gonna find her number in a pc of paper. It's already in your bf's speed dial or phone book. If she sounds young then confront your bf.

Answer 4

Ask to look at his drawings again, taking time to admire them. When you come to the page again ask who the name is make a kinda joke out of it and see what he says. That way you dont have to come and ask him outright straight from nothing.

Answer 5

Call the number and ask Miss Whitney. I have done this in the past and it turned out I was right, he WAS cheating!

P.S. Don't bother to ask him, if he is being a ho-bag, he will not tell you the truth anyway.

Answer 6

Call the number. Block your number first (*67) and see what you come up with. haha Maybe ask if your bf is there....just ask for him by name and if she says no, say okay and hang up. That means he has been there....if she says you have the wrong number then hang up as well and if you're still iffy about it confront him :)

Answer 7

It could be harmless and is important not to jump to conclusions! Tell him you were looking at his drawings and ran across the number. Casually ask him who it belongs to. Don't come off defensive becasue that will only make him mad. Chances are it is simply nothing to worry about.

Answer 8

first of all dont jump to conclusions there are so many evil woman out there she might of wanted him to call her and to be nice took it and then forgot about it just remember when you are top drawer you come first talk to him you have to communicate dont accuse and make him defensive ask in a loving way

Answer 9

I would seriously ask him who the hell it is. . .. . you're his girlfriend you have a right to know and he should have nothing to hid from you. . .. the best thing to do is to talk about it with him. . .. or do you just want to wait around and wonder all the time?

Answer 10

Just ask him. It may have been a "lab" partner. Don't get upset until you know. And you'll be able to tell if he is lying to you or not. Good luck.