my parents?

Question

are so stupid, they are telling me to not quit my job, and i cant till i find a new 1. what is there problem. something very serious happened thee and i cant waith to find a new job, i cant stay thee another day, i called in sick today even. wha should i do, i really cant go back but my parents are being *****es about it. and preaching to me? hep, anybody?

Answer 1

How old are you?

Have you tried talking to your parents about what happened at work?

Your parents are making the best decision they know, but if they had all the facts maybe they would see your side of it!

It's usually always a wise decision to find a job before quitting. If you have bills who is going to pay them if it takes awhile for you to find a job?

Please show some respect to your parents by not calling them names behind their backs!

We all have to put up with things at work that we don't like, sometimes we have to just keep our mouths shut and go about our business. This is only the beginning of whats to come in your job world!

People today are nasty and drama queens and back stabbers etc. Look at 2 Timothy chapter 3 verses 1-5 in the Bible and you'll see what I mean. This is Bible prophecy being fulfilled to show us that we are living in the last days.

You can either be part of the solution or part of the problem!

In that scripture it also shows that children would be disobiedent to their parents!!!!

I am just trying to talk to you like a mother to her child.

Please go to your parents and in a nice voice explain what's going on at work, and explain how you plan to go about getting another job. They will appreciate it!

Answer 2

Maybe they're trying to teach you not to be a quitter. When you get older, you can't always just up and leave. Maybe you can talk to them and tell them you'll get another one before quitting. Stop calling in sick, because it looks bad on you, just get in there, do your job and don't let whatever it is get to you, but at the same time, start making some phone calls, filling out applications, etc. Then maybe one day, if you have an interview, tell them you're sick and go to the interview and hopefully land a better job. But next time, don't be part of the workplace drama - because that doesn't change as you get older.

Answer 3

Listen: I've done it both ways, and I'm telling you, even if your boss is the devil himself but you're not getting physically beaten every day on the job, try any way you can to leave on good terms, with a handshake if you can manage it. Quit if you must, but offer two weeks' notice, and make up some stupid excuse if you can't think of anything that's truthful but not spiteful.

Don't stay if you're that unhappy. If you must part, show a little class, and do so without rancor or "disappearing into the night." You can at least count on a neutral, if not favorable, reference that way, and at your next job interviews, you can truthfully say you handled it in a mature fashion.

Good luck.

Answer 4

It's always best to find a new job before you quit the current one. But if something very serious actually did happen then tell your parents and they will understand. Just make sure your looking in the classifieds each day for a job.

Answer 5

If you don't like it quit, do it without your paren't knowing, too bad for them... my parent's were trying to get me to do the same thing, but i just quit... if it's really bad than do it... it may be better to have a job lined up... but it's up to you. Ask your self:
way out the pro's and cons
- Is the money good
- can you deal without the cash flow for a while
-Do you think you can get another job
- what are the benfitits of the job you have

hope that helpped

Answer 6

Talk to your parents about what happened at work. Perhaps they will understand how difficult it will be for you to go back there. If you don't tell them, you can't expect them to understand.
It is their responsibility to make sure you grow up to be a contributing part of society so understand they are just doing their job. As a teacher, I'd love to see more kids with problems like yours. It would tell me parents are finally showing how much they love their kids by actually teaching them. Probably not what you wanted to hear but I promise you, one day you'll thank them.

Answer 7

Its called taking responsibility for yourself and following through. There are always going to be tough spots in life and you have to find ways to deal with them. I know you don't want to hear it, but your parents are right. I don't know what happened where you are working, but there has to be a way to work around it until you can find something else. Challenge yourself... keep your head up and keep a can-do attitude. You are more likely to find a better job if you are currently working, employers prefer those who are holding a job.

Answer 8

I think first of all you should be glad that you have parents because my dad died 10 months ago and I would do anything to hear him say to keep a job you need to grow up and realize they want whats best for you and you should have a job before quitting because then you wont be going without an income coming in

Answer 9

I mean they have a valid point because it can take awhile to find a new one and that gap in employment and finances can be devastating. Bottom line is that they are trying to teach you responsibility. But if your not happy. Quit and say you got laid off but b/c you weren't there long enough you r not getting severance pay. That gets you off the hook for paying them any rent and stuff. good luck

Answer 10

Most people don't quit their job until they have another one. Money , bills, and all that. Your parents are just trying to be helpful.