Im starting to like my best guyfriend but i dont know how he feels about me.Is there anyway i can ask him out with out messing up our relaship if he doesnt like me that way?
2007-03-26 10:44:48 · 19 answers · asked by love is so....... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope. u have to find out thru a friend. best friends are VERY tricky. i started liking my BEST FRIEND and he's super flirty so i thought he might like me too and i found out that long ago he liked me when i liked him but neither one of us knew, so i thought maybe it was like that again, and i eventually told him and at first he was fine, but then he just stopped talking to me, and it was really hard cuz i went thru alot of other crap and needed him to be there for me, but he felt bad talking to me cuz he thought i would be led on or think he liked me or something. so anyways, we're not talking and havent been for like 3 weeks. and i really wish i hadnt done that bc ive been trying and trying to clear things up and let him know that i dont like him anymore, cuz i dont, but its just VERY awkward and we might never go back to being friends like we were before. so i'd think long and hard about it. is it REALLY worth it? cuz relationships come and go, but friends last forever.
2007-03-26 10:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! I am with my best friend for about a year already. Every thing is going so perfect. We love each other very very much. I never thought he ever liked me. Because I asked him three times! I asked him in my freshmen year, during the summer, and the next year, and he always said, "no I don't like you." But.... he does. He told me that he never wanted to tell me about it because he didn't think I would like him back. So, try it, you might be able to find a surprise. and Don't always believe the answers either. But if you know he doesn't like you for sure, then you'll be able to save yourself some time and move on to other people right?
Just talk to him about something and then suddenly ask, "hey, xxxx, I have a question, um.... is there a possiblity that you would ever like to go out with me? " or something that sort. Just be straight forward. You can say it in a light tone if you don't want to be hurt. But make sure he takes it seriously too.
good luck!
2007-03-26 10:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by love2you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand your hesitation approximately going out including your brother's pal with the aid of consequences of what can ensue while and if it is going undesirable, yet: the age hollow has not something to do with it! in case you have an pastime in this individual and picture he's mature sufficient for you tell him you have replaced your techniques and can choose to be certain in case you 2 have a destiny jointly. Take coronary heart! that could in basic terms scare him off then you definitely does not have this undertaking. What do you advise he's being advise to you? Abusive? or no communique?
2016-10-19 23:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO McFly!
The only reason he is your friend is so he can become your boyfriend. He wouldn't want to be your friend otherwise. Ask him out, you have nothing to worry about. In fact, if you did the opposite and told him he would never, ever be your boyfriend he would stop seeing all together.
Why is it that girls never get this basic fact of human life?
2007-03-26 10:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can always try to flirt a little with him and see how he responds. According to his actions decide whether u should just confess your feelings for him. Remember to ask yourself if you two going out is worth risking your current relationship.
Good luck!!
2007-03-26 10:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by invisible 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya thier is... lol .. that's what happned with me and my girlfriend, she just came out and said that i want to me more than firends... and i said me too, and we have been dateing for a long time... Just tell him how you feel, if he's a really good friend you should be able to ask him what ever you want.
2007-03-26 10:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by brandon c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should "accidentally" drop something in front of him. Bend over at the waist to pick the object up. Try to keep one eye on him to see if he lustfully stares at you. If he does, then he wants you.
2007-03-26 10:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by jimmyb20032003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had the same problem with my best guy friend. i really liked him so i wrote a not and it said (hey i really like you and i was woundering if u liked me back PS- if u dont like me could we still be best friends and forget about me asking u out
2007-03-26 10:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by leelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't ask the guy a question like that, what kind of "best friends" are you? Come on, it can't be that hard, can it?
2007-03-26 10:48:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah just ask him im sure he would like that you asked even if he says no dont let that bother you that means hes comfortable being friends and wants it to just stay at that level.
2007-03-26 10:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by Archangel Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋