I REALLY want to but this would be my first time so what should we do in the shower. Should i just act like how i always do in the shower wash myself. Should i give him any attention or should i just go on how I usually do?
2007-03-26 10:33:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't take a shower together!!
You're both naked.... and it'll lead to sex.
That's pretty obvious.
And we all know sex makes everything complicated.
Don't do what most people are saying, "Wait till you are comfortable enough... you sound too young.... blahhhh."
WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED.
2007-03-26 10:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 3⤊ 4⤋
if he asks you to take a shower with him it is not to take a shower like you normally. Just wash his back and he will do the same and maybe some kissing. Make it sensual. it's romantic. it may be nerve wrecking but it is your first time. good luck
2007-03-26 17:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You sound to young to do this, my sweet. If you are of the age of consent, an adult, and do not still live with your parents, it is a nice clean way to explore each others bodies and not be offended by smells, etc. You do not have to "go all the way" either. Be wise, be mature, be the one in charge and you will be more sensually aware and confident.
2007-03-26 17:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart, he wants you to "shower" with him purely for the sexual aspect of it. If you aren't sure of that, just say NO.
He wants to see you 1) Naked, 2) wet, and 3) soapy. He'll use it as a precursor to sex if you two haven't done it before.
You sound a bit young. I'd say don't do it unless you feel totally comfortable doing it... and you're of age.
2007-03-26 17:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's asking you to join him in the shower it's probably not because he wants to watch you clean yourself. hehe
you'll probably make out alot in the shower, its pretty sexy...cause you're all warm and its steamy. you may want to soap him up and rub him.. and he'll wash you. just being together in a very private place will make it very romantic... i think!
don't do it if you dont feel comfortable though!
and have fun if you do!
2007-03-26 17:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by danielley 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should do what you ussally do but if you under 18 years old you shouldn't take a shower because that is not how a gurl acts!!! no affence
2007-03-26 17:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by gnlcs13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if ur asking this question ur too young to be in the shower with a guy! maybe u should wait until u are more comfortable with him! but if u really want to- do it! but give him attention, don't ignore him! he wouldn't ask u to shower with him if u were gonna ingore him the whole time!
2007-03-26 17:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
uhhh how old are you?? you shouldnt be taking a shower with him if you are not intimate. That is why you take showers with a guy, it is an intimate thing so you would be giving him lots of attention
2007-03-26 17:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by lizzee 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and take a shower with him...
Follow his lead...
It will be a lot more than one of your regular showers...
Bend over & lean up against the wall...
2007-03-26 17:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You take turns washing each other. And other things happen too. Just go w/ the flow.
2007-03-26 17:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by IamwhatIam♥♥♥♥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just have fun... the first time i showered with my boyfriend all we did is wash eacg other... it was fun... we joked around and just had a ton of fun....
2007-03-26 17:37:19 · answer #11 · answered by lovepixiek 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋