I'm forty -- five years old, and I've never been married . I feel insulted and offended that not one of the women I've known has wanted me to be her husband . Am I wrong for feeling this way ? If I shouldn't feel this way, why not ? Why is it wrong ? I don't have what it takes to be single . The single life is a big fat zero ! If Jimmy Jerk and Andy the Abuser won't let themselves be unattached, why should I ? I hate being single .
2007-03-26 10:26:45 · 5 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi...
Um, first I must ask: Have you ever asked a woman to marry you?
I'm assuming the answer is yes... but I wasn't sure.
There's NO explanation for this question. I don't think that you should be offended. I think that you should keep searching for a person that you can spend the est of your life with. I know, I know, you've been looking for forever and none of them seem to want you, but you've got to dig down a little bit further.
Don't ask them weird questions when you first meet them that might make them assume you are a stalker, or just a creepy person.
Really, I don't know what else I can say. You're not wrong for feeling the way you do, that's normal. Everyone wants someone to love.
God bless!
2007-03-26 10:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Cliff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're nonetheless unmarried coz you are pondering that approach. I imply that does not imply that the ladies you understand doesnt like you'll make you consider unhealthy approximately your self. Why no longer opt for any person who does not recognise you a lot? Find any person else that you just might uncover exciting with, attempt to construct anything with that any person, exert attempt (it is imperative), provide time and feature the boldness. Dont push your self a lot although, do exactly it easily, I understand it's less difficult mentioned than performed, however whats up dont consider so down and too historical, larger but have a tender center, via that your state of mind might make you seem and consider younger. Positive points in lifestyles is helping in doing anything. In end, dont get stucked up with the ladies round you, attempt to transfer round, you can not ever recognise...GOODLUCK!
2016-09-05 16:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, well I'm 33 years old and I have been single for over two years now and I don't find that insulting what so ever, haven't been married either.
It sucks being single but if you want to be with someone you should try to get out more and do the things that you like, ya never know you could meet someone. See I don't go out I don't drink or do drugs, I have nothing against people who do that's just not my thing but if I would get out more I would meet someone, I'm sure of that but I'm no where for anyone to meet me. There are things that I like to do but I don't really go out but I'm going to start going out and playing pool again I've been pretty bored myself lately.
Listen just because your not with anyone right now you shouldn't feel so bad about it just try to get out more where you can have some fun. Someone will be out there for you.
Good luck.
2007-03-26 10:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be insulted? Have you ever asked anyone to marry you? Maybe it is your attitude that is scaring women off. It is really hard to answer the question without any details as to how many relationships you have had, how many you proposed to, how long the relationships lasted, etc...
2007-03-26 10:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the when the time is right and the person is right it will happen.
When you stop looking, the right person comes along.
2007-03-26 10:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by Traci L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋