I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend before. I go to a small town so there is not that many guys. I do have crushes on a few guys but most of my crushes are on actors. I do have a lot of friends though that like around 10 guys. Is there something wrong with me cuz I don't like a whole lot of guys. I do think a lot of guys are cute at my school but I don't like all of them.
2007-03-26 10:24:38 · 16 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
14 isn't too young. You have plenty of time!!
Just think ... when you go off to college you'll be around new people and in a new place.
There is nothing wrong with you though. It's a good thing that you're not attracted to every guy you meet. Lots of girls attach themselves to new guys every other week ... when you like a guy it will be a real, honest attraction.
Just don't rush and don't dwell upon it. I'm sure you'll meet a guy who catches your eye before you know it!!
2007-03-26 10:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by jaytotheackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. You are too young to find your soulmate (it may happen 1:1,000,000 times, but realistically no). Do well in school so you can go to a great college and find a smart, mature, handsome guy there (don't expect all of them to be like that in college, though).
You don't need a boyfriend, in JR High and High School it is mostly a lot of drama and heartache anyway. TRUST ME, IT GETS BETTER! You don't like the guys at your school because they are not at your emotional level, just work on yourself and who you are and keep making guy friends. That is the best way to get to know guys without having the heartache of a breakup. When it is the right time, you will make a special bond, but take it slow and enjoy the attention and friendship without getting too serious too fast.
2007-03-26 17:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope nothing is wrong with you. I'm 14 to and i had 1 bf - which only lasted 6 days. I haven't had one since. A lot of my friends haven't had boyfriends either and they are 14 to.
2007-03-26 17:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by ~ Girl ~ Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm shure there's nothing wrong with you, don't be so impacient. Your are barely 14 and have a long way to go. Just try and focus on having friends and having fun!! You'll soon have tons of guys that will be after you, and that one guy that you really like and you'll be together so don't rush things!!!
2007-03-26 17:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, sweet, young lady - friend of mine and child of my soul. Do not worry about not dating at 14 years old. You are just coming in to womanhood and have not achieved your full beauty. When it is meant to be a wonderful guy will ask you out. This does not mean the first guy to ask you out deserves your soul either, just be the lovely, delicate flower you are and do not let yourself be plucked too soon. Do not worry, Love, you are on your way. Do not throw your pearls before swine.
2007-03-26 17:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14 years old. You will have plenty of time to have a boyfriend. If I were you I would stay away from them...they are trouble
2007-03-26 17:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you. Stay true to yourself and everthing will work out for itself. Don't worry about boys now, there will be plenty of time for that when you get older. Have fun and be a kid while you still can. Believe it is alot easy being a kid than an adult with a lot of responsibilty.
2007-03-26 17:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by rollingx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with you, I actually think liking ten guys at once is odd and shows weakness of character, plus when you do start dating, won't it be better to like the person your with a lot rather than him and 10 other guys just moderately?
2007-03-26 17:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you, it is pretty normal to not have a boyfriend before age 14. that is pretty young! maybe you just haven't found a guy that has attracted your attention. just be patient and you will find someone
2007-03-26 17:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by stretchskeleton10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont thing so, it allright to not have a date yet even though ur 14, i no kids that are 15 and not gone on dates, but most of the kids in my school havent had dates
2007-03-26 17:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by cwitte13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋