I have been dating this guy for a year. He has met my family, friends, and co-workers which they all think the world of him. He is very caring, helpful and willing to go out of his way for me and for anyone. He is just super nice! However, I feel like I don't love him or into him as he is into me. Will this every change. Could it be that I have been seeing others but, yet when it comes to me wanting some more special attention I can come to him. We enjoy doing so many things. HE loves to shop and swim like I do. Am I crazy to think that he is not the one.
2007-03-26 10:19:58 · 3 answers · asked by Louder than Words 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like you two are best friends. That is so great to have in a relationship!! It also seems, however, that it stops at that. Being 'just friends.' If you just admit that you don't feel a real attraction to him, but love spending time with him then it's more of a really awesome friendship and nothing more.
You are not crazy to think that he's not the one. If it's been a year now ... you should probably tell him how you feel.
2007-03-26 10:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by jaytotheackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times a relationship looks good on paper but there is just no "spark" I think if there was one, it would have developed by now. If you want to give it a little more time that is fine but if you still are not that into him them just tell him because to continue a dead end relationship wastes your time and leads him on. good luck
remember: if you ever have to ask if he is the one, the answer is no.
2007-03-26 17:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-03-26 17:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by KING 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋