is there something I can do special for her? She is my only sister I have.
2007-03-26 10:19:58 · 10 answers · asked by Soo K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Be there to lend support and help her in any way possible. Help her enjoy her special day.
2007-03-26 10:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old you are, but it would be really interesting to sneak her out of the house one day late at night, or even better really early before the sun comes up and take her somewhere beautiful where only she and you will be and have a really nice, long talk just the two of you. Maybe if you have a nice lake nearby or a nice park. Maybe there is somewhere you guys would always go together, take her there and just spend some time together, just you and her. forget the wedding, the preparations, the fiance, everything for that moment and be together as sisters because you'll never be the same way with each other again.
2007-03-26 10:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two sisters....and I can't imagine life without them! There's several things you can do! Make a scrap book of memories of times and secrets the two of you have shared growing up together! Write her a special letter on the first page telling her that although she's getting married and will soon have a family of her own that you will always cherish the memories you've shared. Also, the week of her wedding, take her to lunch and then the two of you go and have your nails done and a pedicure...even a massage if budget permits! This is also something special that you can include Mom in on if you want to!
2007-03-26 10:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about going through your parents old photos and finding a funny one of the two of you from when you were young, I say funny because she will no doubt be very stressed and will probably appreciate the laugh. Frame it and put a note on it saying "Just so you dont forget that we're sisters" or something like that. Funny yet sentimental. A tip, when ever I look back through our old photo albums I always find the funniest pictures are of chrstmas morning when we all had to sit on the steps and wait for our parents to say "OK", there is probably a time that you recall as always being funny as you were growing up, try to find a picture from that time.
2007-03-26 10:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the maid of honor? If you are, throw her a bridal shower (bachelorette party). If you're not, you can still be a part of the planning for the party(ies). You can also give her a girls night. Maybe do something together that you use to do when you were kids, like a sleep over. Though, just being there for her, and supporting her and loving her and sharing the happiest day of her life with her will be the best gift you can give her.
2007-03-26 10:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by psalms1192532 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably wishing you were in the wedding. But, you need to accept it and make the wedding misserable. It sounds like you arn't going to do that.
You can ask your sister if there is anything you can do to help her. You can give her a shower unless where you live traditionally the bridesmaids do that.
You just might be her gofer.......in a good way. You just need to love her and do what you can to make this a happy day.
2007-03-26 11:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter thanking her for asking you to be part of her special day. Include in it your favorite memories from your childhood of things she and you did together. Print it out on some nice paper and give it to her for framing or for her scrapbook.
My sister was in my wedding. I had the photographer take a picture of just the two of us. I got her an enlargement and sent it with a birthday card. She really appreciated it. If you don't have an official photographer, ask a family member or friend who's handy with a camera to take a picture of both of you.
2007-03-26 10:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be her main supporter. I'm pretty sure this will be a very tense time for her, so when she needs you try to be available to her. She only gets married once and when you get married you will understand exactly what shes going through. Treat her to thing like spas, massages, going to the beach and just spending relaxing valuble time with her. Trust me she will appreciate it.
2007-03-26 12:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by alexbeauty333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw a shower for her
2007-03-26 10:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by fwog_fwog 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. . . .Let her shine. It is her special day.
2007-03-26 10:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by devilgal031948 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋