and he does not have a picture on the site and when i asked him his number he said he does not have a phone number and could not put a picture on cos his computer is a works one and he cannot load one do you think he is telling fibs i did and said i did not trust him, he said if i did not and their was no point in a realtionsip and he sent an email saying i was wrong about him what do you think as i am not sure
2007-03-26 10:13:35 · 18 answers · asked by denny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all.... he only had an hour to meet up with you? Oh come on now....First red flag....The second one is he has no pictures to send to you because it is work pc..? Bebe....He has friends i am quite sure...he can always get someone to put a pic on there for him! Third of all everyone has a contact phone number whether it be a cell, house, WORK, or something...Three red flags says to me...You don't need him in your life..He sounds like he is trying to have his cake and eat it too. Sounds to me that the reason why he said that he cant have a relationship with you is because he knows you are not the one to play with and he wasn't trying to have an honest relationship with you anyways...
2007-03-26 10:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sxy_Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your instincts. I think that if you want to meet someone off the internet you should know a lot about them. When I went for my first date with my now husband, I had his home phone, mobile, work phone and I knew where he lived and where he worked. I had a photo, I knew what car he drove, I knew the name of everyone in his family etc. I told my friend all the info before the date so that if anything happened to me, she could say who, what, where and when. I would never, ever meet someone who didn't give me his phone number. He could be married at best and dangerous at worst. Most blokes send you a picture before you meet as well even if it isn't posted on site. If he wanted to, he could get his photo uploaded at any internet service area. He may be all he says he is but if he had half a brain for womens' need for security, he would be making more of an effort.
2007-03-26 17:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age I'd be very surprised if someone didn't have access to a phone number of some description - if he wanted to talk to you that way he would find some solution.
Also - I'm guessing you're talking to him via email or IM? How come he can upload an IM system like msn messenger, or send private emails to you, but can't upload a photo?!
You're right to be wary here. He seems put out that you don't trust him, but thus far he hasn't given you much reassurance. Give him one last chance to prove you wrong - if it doesn't happen, I'd advise you to cut contact. It sounds like he's hiding something.
2007-03-26 17:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by justasiam29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly my friend he's married which is why he wont give you a contact number and 2ndly please tell me somebody went with you when you went to meet this mysterious man!
Be careful mate, there's many a odd bod on the net arranging to meet young ladies like your Good self, dont let yourself be sucked in by what he says over the net, cause we all lie, jeez I'm actually a 5ft brunette paddy bird, but on the net I'm a 6ft leggy blonde with a bigger chest than Pamela Anderson's.
If you have any doubts about this guy then dont go there, trust your instincts!
2007-03-26 17:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surely he has either a landline at home or a mobile? be odd if he didnt, but maybe he's right?
do you chat over the net in the evenings? if so, he must have a pc at home unless he works late and uses pc at work?
personally i'd say he sounds a bit dodgy and i'd advise you to tell him that as he not easily contacted you're bit wary of beginning a relationship with him, but if he gets in touch with numbers etc you may re-consider.
did you meet up with him or are you waiting to meet him? how long hav eyou known him over net?
unless he can provide a picture and some way of getting in touch when you need to, i'd steer clear.
go out with your mates more, you'll soon find someone more suited to you!
good luck and be careful - if meeting people off the net meet in a very public place and have friends call you every so often etc.
hope it works out for you
2007-03-26 17:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by hedgewitch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OBVIOUSLY... this person is a Complete FAKE -Do Not get involved with him.
Make any excuse, even if its a bit daft -its much better than meeting someone who may harm you.
Take time to get to know anyone you chat with on the net, but if they're cagey and won't share any personal information (even after a few months) Never arrange to meet with them -it spells trouble with a capital T.
Take care On-line, and don't be fooled by imposters.
2007-03-26 17:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not long enough 2 c if you want to ever be botherd with that person again unless he/she comes on really stong then u can give them some kind of attention, but not 2 much cause you can b leading on a jack ***.
2007-03-26 17:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by mackia1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is a big thing with any one.
sounds like there is more to it than he is saying but i could be wrong.
If you feel unsure then it could be for a good reason or your just being careful.
do what you feel is right for you.
all the best
2007-03-26 18:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by angies_angel_eyes2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's telling fibs. Stay well clear!
2007-03-26 17:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds slightly on dodgy side, maybe he's married/living with someone that's why you can't phone or he can't have pic on pc. I'd stay away I think
2007-03-26 17:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by fluffypurplelilac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋