I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend or been kissed before. I feel really weird and left out because all of my friends have had so called boyfriends. But, all of their boyfriends they had they didn't talk to or spend time together....so how could that be a boyfriend? Everyone I talk to says that I am normal and I will fine someone someday but I am kinda shy so I think that I will never get a boyfriend. Sometimes I feel really bad when I see 4th and 5th graders getting boyfriends and I am 14 and haven't had one yet. Is there anyone else out there like me or am I the only one?
2007-03-26 10:13:26 · 7 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No your not the only one out there. I'm 13 and I don't have a boyfriend. Don't worry your time and my time will come soon.
2007-03-26 10:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by Bailey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt have my first boyfriend or first kiss until i was 16 and honestly i wish i would have waited longer. in middle school and highschool the relationships are immature and you usually just end up getting hurt for no reason. you won't even talk to the majority of the people you know now after highschool. it seems like a big deal that you are dating but when you get older you will realize how lucky you were to have not dealt with guy drama over guys that weren't even worth it. it's better to focus on school and your friends that over a boy you may go out with for a few weeks, or doing things with him you may regret later. you are perfectly normal and have nothing to worry about.
2007-03-26 10:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just like you..... I'm 13, shy when it comes to guys and have never had a boyfriend but im perfectly fine with it i don't need a bf right now and quite frankly don't want one don't worry about it sooner or later someone you really like will ask you out just have patience
2007-03-26 10:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by scrunchabunch9793 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me im 14 and ive never had a real boyfriend well like one in kintergarten and it wasnt real cause we were like 5 and yea so yea ur not the only one
2007-03-26 10:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by Tori 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not alone. I have the same problem and feel the same way. But let me know when you get a bf then maybe it'll happen for me too.lol
2007-03-26 10:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by J@5m!n3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, i'm 18. My bf and I got together two weeks b4 my 17th birthday. He is 1st bf and I got my 1st real kiss from him on my 17th birthday. My bf and I are happy together and we are both glad we waited for eachother. So dont rush it.
ps: I'm his 1st gf.
2007-03-26 10:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Shivanie R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a stream that will find it's own
2007-03-26 10:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by Onedrop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋