I have been dating this guy for 2 months....i like him BUT he is moving 2 slow for me. he is the guy, isn't he supposed to be making the moves I have a guy friend who is showing me more and more that he likes me and this past weekend we almost kissed but I backed down because I didn't want to cheat on my bf what should I do?
2007-03-26 10:12:40 · 16 answers · asked by Megan R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Congratulations on finding a great guy! You've finally found one who isn't more interested in getting into your pants than he is learning all about who you are!
2007-03-26 10:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well you need to talk to your b/f about he is moving slow, because he might not want to move to fast for you. If you feel like that doesn't work and you end up starting to like your guy friend better then you might have to dump him. You should probably mention what happened the past weekend. It will show him how much you are in love with him and how much you resopect him , but it will also show him that you want to move a little faster in your guys relationship.
2007-03-26 10:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you like the friend then at least have the guts to end it with you boyfriend i do however give you a thumbs up for not cheating even if you wanted to but stop leading him on and dump him or talk to him about it and no the guys arent always supposed to make the moves its a joint thing
and whats wrong about a guy that wants to get to know you and not whats down your shirt i dated so many guys and if i found someone like your boyfriend i wouldnt give him up for the world (i did find a guy that wants to take it slow by the way and i really think i could end up staying with this guy for a loooong time) so whats the problem
2007-03-26 10:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may like your current bf, but he's not meeting all of your needs. You have three options.
1. Talk to your bf. He might be going slow out of deference to you. If you tell him you're ready to move forward, he might be thrilled.
2. Show your bf you're ready to move forward. It is the twenty-first century, girls can make a move on guys.
3. Break it off with your bf and go out with the new guy.
Whatever you choose, don't string your bf along. The longer you wait to get rid of him, the more it will hurt him.
2007-03-26 10:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your BF what you are feeling b/c you are cheating yourself on your feelings. There is nothing wrong with moving slow it is a sign of respect and he likes you or maybe just nervous. Talk to him and let him know how you feel. Tell him B 4 you do cheat on him. besides..........he hasn't done anything wrong except to move slow. Better that than him moving to fast and cheating on you.
2007-03-26 10:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up, because in my earlier days, I was the type who never made or approached girls, they always approached me, but there has been a couple of girls who dumped me because I didn't make sexual advances to them during our relationships. First of all, some of us guys are brought up to respect the female and we wait for signs or acknowledgment to advance to a more physical level. I was heart broken by a girl I loved to death when she left me for another guy and it was for those same reasons you are inquiring about. So, make the first move to let him understand your true intentions because he may very well have strong and respectful feelings for you. Help him out a little, there's no shame in you getting what you desire.
"A learned blockhead is a greater blockhead than an ignorant one"
"He that waits upon fortune, is never sure of a dinner"
(Benjamen Franklin).
Sincerely,
SuperDave
2007-03-26 10:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by SuperDave 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2007-03-26 10:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by julia1975 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1st - get rid of the other guy.
2nd - its been 2 months. relax... maybe he wants to take things slow because he wants something not just based on emotions or "making moves". thank god hes moving slow and respecting you!
2007-03-26 10:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by MELLO26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on who you like the most if you lik the first guy more then stay with him and just try and make some of the moves and try and work it out cuz sum guys are shy you shouldnt give up on relationships that easy
2007-03-26 10:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by MiiSy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your boyfriend is just shy and inexperienced. Maybe he doesn;t want to move you too fast. You need to talk to him how you feel and let him know what you want. Also, If you think you might like your other friend, you need to re-evaluate your feelings... yu are probably just confused. Try talking to your boyfriend... or put the moves on him yourself!
2007-03-26 10:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jiana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋