My life is a pointless void. i have no real absolute purpose.
I can't top myself because i have a fear of death.
What should I do??
2007-03-26 10:08:41 · 15 answers · asked by dodge 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Please go talk to a professional. They really can help. You probably have depression. Please talk to your Dr. Someone out there loves you more then you will ever know and I am sure it would hurt them deeply if anything happened to you.
2007-03-26 10:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by HA HA HE HE 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a good person you can trust. You seeking help here is hope and a start. Do you have a favorite relative, teacher, maybe a member of the clergy? Or a support group with nice folks that have the same problem. Always remember there are people that care and suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Have you experienced change? Any abuse? Do you feel alienated? There is a group out there to help. I sincerely care because Ihave been on both sides. i still mourn my dear Aunt and Best friend for taking her life and I as a survivor wanted to take my life to join her, but I knew it would cause pain to all of our loved ones. Please seek help Remember you are loved and no problem can't be solved. sometimes after a little help you will find a purpose and a world without you is an empty space with broken hearts.
2007-03-26 17:28:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend talking to someone and maybe getting on medication for depression. This has helped me tremendously.
Also may i validate your existence for you?
I have never met you and i dont know anything about you but i can tell you with 110% honesty that you are no where near being a worthless void. You are alive for a reason, whether you are religious or not,(i am personally not) i believe that this is true. I am glad that you have a fear of death, because it is preventing you from making a mistake and denying the world of knowing who you are. I recommend that you find some volunteer work to get involved with.Whatever your interested in or have a passion for, you can find something to do that i promise you, will give you a sense of purpose. I not only have sympathy for what you are going through, but i also have confidence that you can get through this and also admiration for you, because you are reaching out for help. Good luck to you and if you ever need to just vent to someone you can email me at any time at pippinsgirl6@yahoo.com
Please don't deny the world of what potential you have to offer.
2007-03-26 19:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Laura B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres always Hope For a better Day
The Bible Says To Die To self & serve others
That Gives You purpose & you Then Will Find your Joy
Yeah you should Fear death
its a fearful thing to Meet God
Unless Your salvation is sure
The Die to Self is not talking about Physical death
But Rather instead Of Me Me Me
Do Something That will Help Someone Else
You Know, its More Blessed to Give Than to recieve
But Then you will Notice a Blessing in return
& Like I said , a purpose in Life as well
Things You Like then Will just Come your way w/o you trying
Would recomend Trying a Calvary Chapel Church if ya Have one in your area , But You ask God where To Go
Bible verse;
"Happy is he who's God is the Lord"
And don't feel Alone
We've almost all felt that way at one time or another ,
Me Included
2007-03-26 17:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by forgivenbadboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone must face that question in there life. I've been there I am there, constantly wondering if life really is worth living when existence seems meaningless but though it may take a lot of time, you can somehow improve this outlook and enjoy life. Being stuck in limbo is excruciating but with a little will power, try to get out. Become a hedonist, do what you have to to realize that there are beautiful things in life. What makes you happiest? What do you love? Who do you love? Harness that warmth and happiness and go for it. Additionally seeing a professional can be VERY helpful. Make sure you connect, make sure you dont settle for what is there but find someone who really helps. My psychaitrist is one of the most amazing people I have ever met and I feel privaleged to converse with him every week. That fear you have of death is very understandable and instead of ending your life leaving where it is right now, make the most of every moment of it. This may sound cheesy but no matter what stage you are at in life you can still have the power to make it better. I am just finding that out myself.
2007-03-26 17:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by delovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The idea is not to top your self, not to go over your head, but to mellow out. DO =Its time to think of a different way of life. What do you like to do, maybe a hobby something only you would enjoy. some type of collection to compete with others and be the best, how to find out if your collection is better than anyone elses is by competeing in fairs to show off WHAT YOU can do best=The best their is.= A GOAL TO HAVE THE BEST COLLECTION.
2007-03-26 17:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should see a doctor, you probably have depression. And until you see him you should try to realize that EVERYONE feels like their life has no purpose, so don't get yourself down. Do something for others, maybe. Donate money to different causes - you're doing something good for others, and that's a purpose in life.
2007-03-26 17:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by insideout72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seek help for depression killin urself isnt the answer think of the hurt and damage u will leave behind try lookin at things in a more positive light an try put urself out a bit more the smallest of things help
2007-03-30 14:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jay_s_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah..you might want to avoid Goth music, the smiths., Morrissey..etc...
otherwise...get out of the house...do ANYTHING (positive) you haven't done yet...go see a ball game, movie etc..
not because it will help you...but it'll get you out of the house and away from work...
your life isn't pointless...nobody's life is pointless..it is a matter of self discovery...did you feel this way 10 years ago? 5 years ago? what gave your life purpose then?
go find something today...got to a library..if you can't find a purpose...I will give you one.....
educate yourself on everything you can...learn a language, learn about anything that you can...keep your mind occupied,
2007-03-26 17:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
throwing your life away is the most selfish thing you can do! life is Gods greatest gift, and think of the people you'll leave behind, think how sad they'd be. so stay alive, life goes on, don't throw it away, if not for yourself, than for the people who love you.
you go live a good life. God has a plan for you, and if you do it Gods way, than one day you will walk beside him, in the kingdom of heaven.
2007-03-26 17:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude slow down dont do anything drastic here my emails lucky_charmz_69@yahoo.com but im grounded so i dont get on that often
talk 2 me about nthing u need 2 talk about man just remember theres some1 that cares what about ur family? friends? any1? theyd probably miss u anyway if u want 2b more specific like i said theres my email dont hesitate 2 write me
2007-03-26 17:13:06 · answer #11 · answered by Lucky Charmz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋