My bf is being a jerk and not trusting me (which I have done nothing to make him think anything) We have been growing farther apart but this guy I have liked for the whole year just also broke up with his gf and he was the one to help me though my problems. I want to go out with him but I am moving soon. What should I do?
2007-03-26 10:07:36 · 13 answers · asked by Megan R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Meg, u have urself a little pickle here. The bf who was a jerk, u need 2 put 2 the curb like ur' garbage and as 4 the new interests, u need 2 make a decisions. U want 2 stay and date him or u move and lose this opportunity. Truth is, long distance relations don't last unless u r going 2 college and can come home every weekend and usually, that doesn't work either. Now, u have 2 weigh pros and cons of staying or going. I sympathize with u and wish u the best of luck. This is a tough decision but go with ur' gut feeling.
2007-03-26 10:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Tell It Like It Is! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, ask yourself how much you care about your current boyfriend. If he's just a fling, or just someone to be with, leave him. No man or boy has the right to be a "jerk" to you or treat you in an unrespectable manner. Not to mention you're currently growing farther apart from each other. From my perspective, you have nothing to gain from staying with this guy.
As for the other guy; why don't you get to know him a little better first and give him some time to recover from his breakup, assuming he was in a serious relationship. If you honestly like the other guy, and feel that you can develop a relationship with him, go for it.
Good luck with your problems. :D~
2007-03-26 17:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by angel_w1ng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see, you have been liking this guy for about a year, he was the one who gave you a shoulder to cry on, and you don't understand why your BF is not trusting you.
Gee I hate it when that happens. You want to cheat on the side, and keep your BF too.
I think your BF should dunp you, and your new love move away and find somebody else.
Does that answer your question?
2007-03-26 17:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by ttpawpaw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that right there is the reason why he SHOULDnt trust you. So he is not in the wrong for not trusting you because you are wanting to date someone else. Do whatever you want to do but open your eyes to reality, people can see when the one they are with likes someone ese.
2007-03-26 17:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by oneradchica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are already making plans for another guy and then you wonder why your boyfriend is being a jerk? Looks to me you've already decided what you're going to do wether it's right or not
2007-03-26 17:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are moving soon what is the point? you still have to end one relationship without starting a new one. i think you need some time solo when you move, just to get yourself together.
2007-03-26 17:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by tonix 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whatever you think is best for you. you still have a boyfriend, so don't try anything with anyone else until you have completly settled things with him.. if not then he'd really have a reason not to trust you.
2007-03-26 17:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by MELLO26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your bf knows this and is feeling that he cant trust u
2007-03-26 17:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by hotcowgirl212 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on you know you want to it is summer time live it up you only have one life to live make the most of it and get rid of jealous crazy people
2007-03-26 17:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by ashlandtree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do everything you possibly can to mess around with both guys for as long as you can! if they find out it doesn't matter because you're moving and will probably never see them again.
2007-03-26 17:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by Chris M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋