hes my very first boyfriend.i've had lovers before but never a proper boyfriend.(is there a difference?for me there is.).its stressing me out.2 of my friends(1 my ex and one his),are really supportive and telling me that he does love me and that it means nothing.its just the way he is.i know is nothing a person can do to stop someone from cheating.but i am really stressed out cause of his flirting.my boyfriend tells me he does love me and wont ever leave me.but i just cant believe him.i dont know what to do anymore.
2007-03-26 10:03:24 · 12 answers · asked by conner_conner11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 18 and gay.
2007-03-26 10:03:34 · update #1
i always found it funny.but its not anymore since i got together with him.we(me and other friends)found it amusing to see how many guys he could chat up.not so funny anymore.
2007-03-26 10:17:51 · update #2
you know what hes like con.when hes with someone then he stays.he wont stray i promise you that.
2007-03-26 12:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by dream_hawk22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have married for 6 years and he still flirts with other people. However, I know he is honest when he says he is not cheating me and hasn't cheated on me (i don't know how, i just do know and I am not being naive). It's just something some people do. They flirt! It doesn't mean that they think any less of you or that they want to be with someone else it just means they like the attention. I used to find it really hard, especially as my ex cheated on me loads of times and I was feeling really insecure but you just have to get over it. I know it's hard and I still get upset sometimes but it doesn't bother me as much as it did.
However, if you really can't deal with it, you need to tell him that it upsets you and maybe he will try and stop. If he won't then you need to think long and hard if you can put with it and if it's worth it.
2007-03-26 17:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by willowbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't funny, its horrible. Flirting is still a possible sign of intent and not a credible occupation for someone who is off the market. I can tell you adore him so you will have to tell him to stop it. He may be one of those types who feel they have to do it to feel attractive so it wont be easy for him. But if he seriously wants you to stay around then he will have to accept that you are the only guy he flirts with and thats that.
2007-03-26 17:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right you need to tell him how its hurting you. If he carries on then he is not respecting you at all. It does not matter that you are gay as a relationship should be between two people who love each other and respect each other. Talk to him and see if you can sort this out. If not then move on and find some one who wants to be with you and respects you.
Good luck
2007-03-26 17:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is what u do when your alone together just talk to him and say what is brothering you and sort it out or it will really cause a hazard i may not be gay but i have loads of a gay friends and trust me if you don't sort it out u will break up and you don't want that or you can also start flirting as well but i don't think you want that
2007-03-26 17:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by bobbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress never led to love.
2007-03-26 17:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some of the same treatment start flirtin with other men see how he likes it . or try talking to him .If all fails DUMP!
2007-03-26 17:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by bubu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is just a release.. It's harmless fun, don't worry!
2007-03-26 17:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by nuk_su_kow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, that to stop flirting, and if not, leave him and find someone else, respect yourself
2007-03-26 17:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to stop an if he does not get rid you don't need this in your life .
2007-03-26 17:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋