My friend Chip has been flirting with me a lot in study hall. He's 19 and I'm 15 so i must admit i love the attention.... but he is engaged. He doesn't flirt with me like jokingly like today he actually asked me if i would ever go out with him and he was holding my hands. I'm not sure why he is engaged to this girl because she cheated on him. I'm not sure if i should ask him to stop because he and I are really good friends and like i said i love t he attention. I'm so confused....
2007-03-26 09:59:31 · 13 answers · asked by drummergrrl2004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be stupid...tell his future ex-wife what he's doing. He's no friend...he's just manipulating a naive 15 yo girl.
2007-03-26 10:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a player. You deserve more than that. Don't start being the "other woman" because you'll end up hating yourself for it. He is not your friend if he is acting this way. You should tell him if he wants to be your friend he needs to have boundaries. If he cheats on his fiance then he will eventually cheat on you, and even if he doesn't you will always suspect him. This is not the beginning of a good relationship. Think it through very carefully. You deserve more than the attention from a sleazeball.
2007-03-26 17:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Sara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For obvious reasons as you can see, a boy 19 is way to young to even consider getting married. He is way too young to even comprehend what marriage entails in the first place. You would do best if after a while you see that he is no longer engaged to then consider if you would even want to date him. Otherwise, it appears he is just out to play around even at the cost of his engagement. Which is understandable for a guy who is 19, but not understandable as to why he is engaged. Do what is right for you!
2007-03-26 17:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if he is a friend then friends dont do each other like that they have respect for one another and their relationships with other people second he is engaged to someone else and third he is 19 and you are only 15.....the only thing you like is the attention he is giving you if you think he will leave his fiance for you ......you are just kidding yourself.....he wants his cake and eat it to......he is not a friend if he is trying to fool around with you cause say you two got together would you want him doing you the way he is doing his current girlfriend soon to be wife?????cause that is what ppl like him do is get off on having cake and eating it to....good luck
2007-03-26 17:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please use your head... a 19 year old boy should not be trying to date a 15 year old girl. The both of you should be trying to be with people in your own age groups. Being friends is one thing, but actually dating crosses the line.
2007-03-26 17:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by j b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in High School and engaged? That's messed up. If he's engaged for real, you have to tell him to back off, and find yourself someone better. Plus, he's 4 yrs older than you.
2007-03-26 17:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by calmangel4all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is willing to cheat on her he will be willing to cheat on you. Stay with the friendship and forget the dating. Would you want you BF doing these things with another girl.
2007-03-26 17:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on! if he's cheated on his fiance, can you imagine being with him and him cheating on you?! feels kinda sh!tty! not worth it. there are tons of other guys that will give you attention AND the respect you deserve!
2007-03-26 17:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by Petunia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First , he should have dumped her in the first place , cause she cheated on him, and that you should talk to him, and tell him, that this is not right, just tell him how you think about this, and ask him what he thinks
2007-03-26 17:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do you like him more than a friend? Share your feelings with him. And don't give him the impression to break it off with his fiance. Let him do what his feelings say.
2007-03-26 17:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by Rachael 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋