My friend and I had this really big crush on these 2 guys. Today I helped her get together with the one she likes and now they're a cupple. But now me and the other guy who I like feel kinda akward that they're together and we both feel really left out, and I'm sorta regreting getting them together. Why am I feeling like this?
2007-03-26 09:53:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You feel like this, because she's found happiness with someone and you haven't. You want what she has, relationsihp happiness. That special someone that makes you smile.
So be happy for her. It may or may not last, but your friend will always be your friend.
2007-03-26 09:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are feeling is natural. You miss having your friend to yourself. This happens in all friendships sooner or later. It even happens as you get older and a friend of yours gets married. Feelings of losing a friend can make one sad. Just know that you have not lost her. She is just gonna sometimes not be available as she was before. Try and see if she is willing to plan things that just you and her can do. Also, it would be a good idea to hang out with other friends also. Just try your best to never be a jealous friend that will go so far as to jeopardise her relationship with her new guy. Remember, friendships change with time, but the love of friendship will always be there. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-26 17:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
you are feeling left out because you are being left out!!!!
its ok what you want to do is maybe go and talk to another friend or someone new!!!
thats what i did when i felt left out!!!
hope all goes well!!!
haley
2007-03-26 16:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by Hailey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're jelous because now she has a bf to do things with and you don't at the moment.. you are probably worried that she will start to do things with him and you will be left out.
2007-03-26 16:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋