and try to kiss a girl and she hugs you instead? It happened to me and she said she wants to hang out again.
Is this anything I should feel I did wrong? I'm only concerned im going to drive her away now, but I felt she was sincere when she said she wanted to hang out again.
I normally don't try a kiss unless I think it went really good, and I think it went really good. Not perfect, but good enough. Should I feel she's going to be pressured?
And should I email her and apologize maybe?
2007-03-26 09:37:24 · 7 answers · asked by burrelson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To the first responde,r, stick with the tofu, I was not too forward.
2007-03-26 09:47:25 · update #1
Why would you ever want to apologize for sharing your feelings. You didn't force it - or did you? In any case, she was honest about her feelings and now you think that means she doesn't like you or would feel pressured. Maybe she is just the type girl who thinks that kissing on the 1st date is too much. If she says she wants to hang out with you more and you still want to hang out then do go out again but maybe wait a little longer and get to know her more before you try that 'first base' thing again.
Wow - the thrill of a first date! I can remember how wonderful that was - enjoy!
2007-03-26 09:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Goodmomma1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont email and apologize because then you'll just seem lame and needy. Just let it go and hang out with her again, the two of you can get over it. If you make it an issue, it will become an issue. It sounds like she doesnt want it to be an issue, so its up to you if you let it ruin things.
2007-03-26 09:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Girls get pretty good, pretty quick, at realizing when a guy's about to kiss them, and if they don't want to, they know how to get out of it with a minimum of embarrassment. Just take it slow with her, don't try kissing her again until you've been out with her a few more times.
2007-03-26 09:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss on the first date?!?!?! You're a big ol' man ho. LOL
Just apologize for being too forward and let it go. Let her make the next move.
2007-03-26 09:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think she knows that you were trying to kiss her? if you think she does then mabey she tought it was too fast for her and she probably got a little suprised and mabey she wasn't ready yet. ( first date? ) i think you should apologize on your upcoming date, saying that your sorry you tried to kiss her without knowing it would make her a little bit uncomfortable and tell you'll wait untill she seems ready? hope this helps
2007-03-26 09:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by jx3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no cuz its the first date why shud you do that? i wud wait till shes ready to.
2007-03-26 09:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by The Jonas Brothers Rule!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldn`t. It is okay 2 do that........actually that should probally be what should happen.
2007-03-26 09:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by I hate pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋