I broke up with my bf last Tuesday. He broke up with me in the past, hurt me too much so I did it maybe just for revenge.
He's supposed to visit me this wednesday(we are long distance) but just now i found out he cancelled his flight. I never thought he'd do that b/c although i told him not to come he said he would.
So i thought we broke up on tuesday and we'll make up on this wednesday. But now i just found out he's not coming and he's not returning my calls and emails. I dont know what to do. I just can't stop crying right now. How can i make him talk to me and see me again? I mean, he begged me to stay last tuesday, how can he be totally the opposite now?
2007-03-26 09:32:56 · 17 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he'll change his mind and surprise you on Wednesday.
2007-03-26 09:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit playing games! Revenge? come on now how old are you? Maybe thats something he realized ! Relationships should be 110% both ways. If you want a serious relationship then be serious about it!
I'm sorry that your feeling bad, but maybe this was a long time coming anyway.
Good luck in your future relationships!
Stop crying unless you like self destruction!
2007-03-26 16:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by Oregon_Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well one reason he could be so totally opposite now, his he took some time and thought about the situation and decided it is better not to get back together. if he has hurt you so much you will be better off without him-its all just a matter of getting thru the break up pain with feels like it will never end.
sooner or later it does end and u can look back and realize everything happens for a reason-good luck to you i know it is so easy for others to ay this as we are not the ones who ae hurting so bad
2007-03-26 16:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The majority of long distant relationships don't work. You can't beg a person to take you back or do anything else. He has made a choice not to take the relationship further. It will be upsetting for a moment but you will get pass this and find someone local who will fit you like a glove.
2007-03-26 16:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a letter apologizing for everything you've every done. Not an e-mail, a letter. He'll be suprised you took the time to do something old-fashioned like a letter and it'll show that u care. Send him some cookies with it too. If he doesn't talk to after that then he's a jerk and not worth it.
2007-03-26 16:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by Chris M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have thought about everything you said and want to give you space.
If you didn't want to break up with him then you shouldn't have.
He may think that he doesn't want to be hurt anymore either.
When you write him emails do you tell him that you made a mistake about breaking up with him and that you want him back.
Sorry that you are going through this.
2007-03-26 16:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabye he had a change of heart. I wouldn't blame him you broke up with him for not apparent reason. Try to get him back mabye visit him or leave him some kind of message telling him how you feel and that it was a mistake.
2007-03-26 16:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by Alli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him and told him not to come. What part of that statement meant, "I love you, please come see me"? He is doing what you told him to do. If you truly want to make this work, you need to give it some time and then apologize. It needs to be heartfelt and real. Then it is HIS decision whether or not to accept the apology.
2007-03-26 16:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by Terri Klapperich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor you.... :'(
why are you crying? i thought you wanted revenge? or do you still love him? i think he wants revenge from your revenge, if that makes any sense. i don't really understand the situation it's a little bit confusing so i hope this helps a little bit.
best of luck :)
2007-03-26 16:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by jx3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wah! Wah! Wah!
You made your bed now sleep in it. Hopefully you learned a lesson about acting like a 2 year old.
2007-03-26 16:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋