If u started talking to this young lady about a week ago & the two of u have already gone out & things were cool, but money was tight for u this week what would u think if she said would u like for me to stop by after my meeting tonight? If u guys spend hours on the phone daily, would u think that by her asking to come over with in this week meant she was trying to give u sex or just wanted to enjoy your company, and what would u think of her either way. I really do enjoy this guys company, but I am not easy & I don't want to appear that way. I have kids at home so I am not going to ask him over. I would just like to see what happens but I don't want to over think things & I don't want him to have a bad impression of me because I don't believe we have to have sex for him to get that impression I actually think just by me asking to come over will give him that impression. Guys help me out so I don't come across as looking for something. I think he has not asked for the same reason.
2007-03-26 09:31:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't come across like a slut, he most likely is not expecting sex just because you invite him over. If your already very physical with him and lead him to believe that the time was coming soon, he may expect it. If he tries something just tell him your not into it yet. If he's not cool about it than tell him to screw off.
2007-03-26 09:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you directed the question to guys, but I am going to give you from a single mom's prospective just as you. First, you should be patting yourself on the back for looking out for your children. I do the same thing, second if the guy is mature enough he will not expect that the only reason you are coming over is for this reason. How about you tell him, "Hey I hhave small children and I am not at that point where I want them to be confused, but I have some free time how about I come over and cook you dinner or we have a few drinks to relax and chat before I go home" . On the other hand if that is what he is looking for, the I would not bother with the guy cause he is only really looking at you in that way. But, from the description you are giving it doesn't sound like that is the case.
2007-03-26 16:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by pattiof 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a week is a little soon, plus you have kids and you don't want them to see this guy and if things did not work out and you meet someone else and invite him over and they see another guy they might get the wrong impression. Hope that made sense
2007-03-26 16:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Digger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok to ask him over, do not dress provocatively, no alcohol, nothing suggestive. Be sweet but not sexy. You have two kids so I presume you how things are done if you interested in sex. So have your date at home but keep it cool. But not too cool, you might never see him again if you are icy. Good Luck
2007-03-26 16:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It truly depends on the guy you ask. If you talk regularly on the phone, he should already know if your interest go beyond the living room to the bedroom already. So you should not worry. Let him know your intent as friends and this should continue as your friendship grows..
2007-03-26 16:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by *DestinyPrince* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋