well theres this boy called Chris and we text each other and talk on msn and he's really nice.But everytime i see him in school i turn the otehr way and go bright red.today he came and sat with me and my friends with his friend.he didnt talk to me much so i jsut sat there bright red :(. please help me how can i be confident .does he like me ? how can i stop being shy and going red please ??
2007-03-26 09:28:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're not alone, i was the same and i ended up missing my chance to date the cutest guy in school. because my best mate had to be not shy and asked him out lol. i would say, there isn't much to be shy about you like him, he clearly likes you, so the next time you see him, casually say hi, and if you can manage it a little wave, and then you can turn away let yourself go red. then take ten deep breaths, telling yourself that it is all ok and you managed that well. at the end of the day, you want him to be ur friend at least right? cos we all want out bf's to be our mate. so just act as if he's just another one of ur mates, so u won't go red, you will get to know each oher better, and be happy all round good luck
2007-03-26 09:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by white_funny_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must like you as you two text each other and talk on msn. You go red cause you like him and he likes you so just talk to him and it will get easier and your blushing will soon stop.
Good luck
2007-03-26 16:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way only I don't blush (thank God)!!! Just treat him like you treat your friends. When talking to him pretend like you don't like him and that he's just an ordinary guy. See if that helps and the biggest thing is to just not think and act like yourself!!!
2007-03-26 16:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tennis2127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may sound hard but make the move and talk to him face to face ask him if he likes and and tell him how shy u r otherwise u will be going roud in circles forevea
2007-03-26 16:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by spencerm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
https://hypnosisdownloads.com/downloads/self_improvement/overcoming_shyness.html?1596 Overcome shyness and social anxiety
2007-03-27 18:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out, but casualy, be like hay ya wanna hang out some time?... but say it on line. so you dont get embarassed and run off...
2007-03-26 16:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by Nice guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking and just act like you usually do, your sitting there thinkin is he lookin at me does he like me, do i like him an its makin you embarresed, just act around him like you do your normal friends, an yeah you will blush for a while but hey he'll get over it!
2007-03-26 16:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by Jo. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just try to talk to him, it will eventually get easier and u wont get red as much/easily
2007-03-26 16:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by seraphus2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋