Can I marry a girl who is four year older than me. Actually my girlfriends were always older than me. Even my friends were 4 to 5 years older than me throughtout my entire life because I graduated at a younger age than my classmates. Now when I talk with a girl who is 21, she sounds too immature to me.By the way I am 22. Need some good advise.
2007-03-26 09:19:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who cares how old she is. As long as she makes you happy.
2007-03-26 09:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Tennis2127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound kinda like me.... I have ALWAYS been around older people.... even all of my friends are at least 5 years older.... i know what you mean when you say they are to Immature.... I am with a guy that is 9 years older and could not be happier... I think it all depends on the 2 people in the relationship and if they are at the same point in there life and if they want the same things out of life.
2007-03-26 16:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by 123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 9 years younger than I am. My previous husband was 6 years younger. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. My current hubby always like older gals -- he's very, very smart (high IQ) & could never tolerate younger gals. Enjoy!!!!
2007-03-26 16:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by napqueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. as u r accustomed with people older than you, then you should not have problem with this. i think you r the best judge of yourself. of course you must have problems with people of ur age, but, at the same time you should also consider ur family & society. as u will live the life with ur wife, so you should consider ur convenience, too. moreover, before selecting a wife, you should make her ur girlfriend & see how it goes!
2007-03-28 13:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by tasbirahmed_buet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally fine to marry someone older. I've known guys that are married to women up to 10yrs older.
2007-03-26 16:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is 9 years older than me and we are very happy. 4 years is nothing. Go for it.
2007-03-26 16:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can marry a girl older than you if you two connect well.
2007-03-26 16:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by Vena cava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's old enough to be your older sister. It's a very social thing - a taboo. that's what makes many do it. I would say, follow your heart, though I doubt that the woman sees you the same way.
2007-03-26 16:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by Black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is 12-years older than me and we are very happy. Go for it.
2007-03-26 16:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea a lot of guys are attracted to older women because of the maturity factor.
i say go for it but not because of the age difference but because you and her have a mutual feeling towards one another
-pz-
2007-03-26 16:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lucious M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋