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My b/f and I have been dating for almost 4 yrs. We fight over stupid things like phone, doing laundry, work hrs, etc. He says I have "no act right or akrite" whatever that means. We love each other but he is contantly making me feel like I should be begging him to marry me. We're both successful professionals and do not need each other for financial support. He tells me when he is ready to settle down and I haven't made any changes...then he'll move on. I'm confused + wondering if I'm wasting my time here...I'm in my late 20s and should be starting a family. Should I stay and see what happens...or should I move on?

2007-03-26 09:19:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

Sounds like the run around to me. The right guy won't make you "beg" for a commitment. He should feel lucky he has you and he should let you know that too.

This is not time wasted, it's a lesson to be learned. If this is good enough - stay. If not- move on, you've got plenty of time.

2007-03-26 09:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by dynamicduo79 2 · 1 0

I think you should give him a time frame. If he is not ready to marry you within say 6 months you should move on. You two have been together long enough to be ready for the next step. If he isn't ready by then, then later for him. If you should happen to split from him remember that men won't buy the cow when they can get the milk for free.

2007-03-26 10:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by j b 2 · 0 0

you're able to desire to get married on account which you want to get married no longer because of fact it variety of feels to be what each physique else is doing. i'd say at 35 years old and a fifteen year long relationship you're able to be waiting for marriage, yet you nonetheless have a great variety of transforming into as much as do. possibly it may be applicable in case you took a wreck from this relationship, which could merely be a habit by potential of now, and paintings on convalescing your self. maximum critically, don't have babies till you will possibly be a suited discern to them, in spite of if this implies you on no account have babies. you're able to no longer desire babies merely because of fact human beings have them. boost up already. ETA: juvegirl and jaded for applicable answer! Wow!

2016-12-19 14:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by haden 4 · 0 0

If you don't need him and he makes you feel like crap, then maybe you'd be better off without him. For him to try to be "the man" at this day and age, and especially when you're successful too, he needs to get over himself, and maybe he doesn't deserve you. There's no need for you to ever try to beg anyone.

2007-03-26 09:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0 0

Sit down and talk with your bf. Ask him what his plans for the future are. Ask him where he sees himself in 2-4 years. His answers will tell you all you need about whether you fit in his big picture or not.

2007-03-26 09:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 1 0

you have to adjust or change your ways of thinking.stop fighting over stupid things as you said.try to do things on your own.

2007-03-26 09:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by niran a 2 · 0 0

move on, if hewas in love with you, he would show it and ask you

2007-03-26 09:23:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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