My ex and me split up and i am supposed to be seeing her in the holidays, we pretty much live together and i feel fine since i have come home for my space. i think we should still talk but i dont know if this would bring back feelings and i would be setting myself back on getting over her. its wierd not talking to someone i used to see and talk to evryday. she text me a while ago and since i said i needed my space and this is why i have not gone back i have not got any messages. should i initiate conversation or leave things for a while? we r supposed to be seeing each other in a couple of weeks.
2007-03-26 09:13:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you just want her to talk to because your use to it?? well that's not a reason to call her. you see women dont use men like that normally. they talk to men they want and need. men talk to women out of habit. think about that.
2007-03-26 09:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi ive just been in the same situation and me and my boyfriend managed to sort things out, but it is always in the back of my mind "is it just a case of habit", im frightened that we keep coming back to each other because thats all weve both known for 5 years, follow your instinct and dont go back on it, there is no point in going back in life you just end up being dissapointed. Good Luck
2007-03-26 18:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by Gemma D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard i was married for ten years and now on my own with the kids i miss that person to talk to but i have moved on and i am happyer in myslef now u need to get out and have a good time do something for u i am still friends with my ex and we still txt and chat to each other but i don't txt him all the time he's a friend not a boyfriend................
2007-03-26 16:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by spencerm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you need to sit down and make some future arrangements about your relationship. Staying friends is one thing and can be nice, but you have to make your feelings known.
2007-03-26 16:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by aka nuggets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe send an ice breaker, there's nothing like meeting up and having that awkward silence, just say hi, how ya doing? those feelings may resurface, but you know you can manage without her so you will be fine, besides she may have already moved on so it won't be as awkward as you think
2007-03-26 16:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by white_funny_girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you think this is the end for you and your x...then leave it... you should be getting on with your life and meeting someone new...keep meeting your x will only f**k your head up and you will not be able to progress with your life......
2007-03-26 16:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by missnicedell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should talk to her about things. if your trying to get over her, make it as simple as possible. just don't leave it and ignore her because thats not going to help anything and just make things worse. i wish you luckk!!
2007-03-26 16:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by imissy0u* ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you should talk to her maybe it is something good
2007-03-26 16:16:34 · answer #8 · answered by kitty b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋