my crush semms to like me but when my older cousin comes around he forget all about me and pays attentions but my cousin knows i love him but she is taking him away shes the devil what should i do
2007-03-26 08:55:52 · 9 answers · asked by Miss Chicago 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my cuz really doesnt like him she chses after every boy i F****** like and i am so P***** off at her that B**** can nevr find a man of her own
2007-03-26 09:27:41 · update #1
if he liked you,then your cousin would not matter..your cousin is trash and she knows what she is doing..don't confide in her,because is user's it for her own advantage...
2007-03-26 09:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by missnicedell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cant take what is not yours in the first place!
He's your crush not your boyfriend and he obviously likes you both but in different ways.
Maybe he See's you as just a friend and actually has feelings for your cousin.
Your cousin is not the devil, your just feeling a tad jealous because your "crush" pays her more attention and to be honest he's got a mind of his own and obviously knows what or who he wants, dont lose your cousin but dont throw yourself at his feet if he's not interested in you the way that you are about him.
You cant put all the blame on your cousin, you may just have to swallow the fact that it's your cousin he wants and not you and give in gracefully with your head held high and your pride and dignity in tact!
2007-03-26 09:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deal with the situation by remaining loyal to your older cousin. It's not her fault that your 'crush' is apparently a jerk. Or....he's just not that attracted to you. It happens. If he reacts this way now...it's likely that he would be the type to check out every pretty girl in sight while you were together. Treat it as another cruel lesson in love, and forget about trying to get his attention. The more effort you make the more he'll disappoint you.
2007-03-26 09:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling with similar situtions myself....forget him and try not to see him. this will help so much to leave him behind. either that or see him wen sh's not arounf-that way you get all his attention
2007-03-30 01:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd talk 2 him and be like u kno wat buddy im ur gf NOT her and if he doesnt like that then screw him. but, if u dont wanna do that then tlk 2 ur cuz be like "umm i'd expect this crap from some1 i don't kno or i don't like but not from a family member so u need 2 stop this NOW"(u could also slip in "I kno u have no friends of ur own but u can't have mine") just like that grl
2007-03-26 09:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by SarahBear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to move on hun and as for your cousin ............ u can only pick your friends not your family unfortunatly
2007-03-26 09:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by spencerm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of both!
2007-03-26 09:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by unanski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out!!
2007-03-26 09:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he don`t love you!!!! simple....
2007-03-26 09:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by <ironballs> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋