ok ihave an ex and we went out for 1 year and 5 months we broke up because he moved only 25 minutes away and the distance was too hard. I'm gonna see him this weekend so how do i get him back and this might sound crazy but i'm in love and i want him back so how do i do that this weekend
we dont drive and go to different schools
2007-03-26 08:52:16 · 23 answers · asked by thankgodhe'smine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the feelings were still there when he left, then they should still be there. It depends how long ago he moved. Just be yourself. Talk to him a lot, and make sure you flirt with him too.
2007-03-26 08:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Rachael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason you broke up but I don't think its because of the distance excuse. Stop trying to win him back. Nothing you do or say is gonna change things. Can't you move on? I know its hard but it can be done. I broke up once with someone I had been dating for five years. I thought I was gonna die without him but hey last time I checked I was alive and breathing. Losing him didn't put an end to me although at the time I really thought I would die. It will get better soon.
2007-03-26 08:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, going out like a sucka is not in your agenda. Realize how valuable you really are and what you are worth before you do a bad recylce move. Men are not like plastic or anything else that can be recycled, nor is your respect. If he felt that him taking 25 minutes out of his 24 hour schedule was going to interfere with his so called important life, then well-hell, he doesn't think too highly of you or your time make it work. He's self centered. Don't waste your time, because as you will soon see, he will be dating someone else real soon. He will be spending time wherever he is at now with a new person. Don't be a fool. Never move backwards unless you are playing SIMON SAYS!
2007-03-26 09:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, you need to first breathe and relax. Im judging by the fact that you think 25 min is a long way and neither of you can drive that you are young, maybe highschool? (I could be wrong..) I know it seems now that all the odds are against you and you'll never feel about anyone else like you do about him.. Just be friends and let you know that you still have a interest. Enjoy finding out what kinda person you are. Talk on the phone with him and stay in touch. When you get older and have cars it may be easier to have a relationship with him.
2007-03-26 08:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird, im going through the same thing. this girl and i dated in 8th grade, broke up. ninth grade, broke up. then we both got into really serious relationships with other people, and stopped talking because our new people didnt like us. we both recently broke up with the people we were dating and now cant stop talking, but ive moved and we can hardly ever see eachother. i drive but have no car, and she doesnt get her license for a while. love is hard especially when you dotn have the freedom to go where ever when ever. you should tell him how you feel, but play hard to get. act like he means a lot to you but he isnt everything. you'll be okay with out, from the way i am that should make him want you even more. i didnt have this much desire for the girl i like until she suddenly didnt care about me anymore. it makes boys nuts when the girl they love acts like they dont exsist.
2007-03-26 08:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by Travis W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live 3000 miles away from my g/f. I visit every month. What's the big deal? Sounds like a lame excuse. We're getting married soon after we live together a little while. I'm moving there in a couple months.
2007-03-26 08:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by madbaldscotsman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all - why do you "wanna die"? this is a immature remark.
Second - find someone locally, if he is only 25 minutes away and it's "too hard"...that should tell you something...he doesn't want to make any effort.
Good luck!!
2007-03-26 08:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. If he wanted to make this work, a 25 minute drive would not matter. 25 minutes is not far at all. He doesn't want to be with you anymore. Find a guy closer to you.
2007-03-26 08:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just crazy. you must be really young. i've been dating the same guy for 3 years and he lives like 2 hours away. if he broke it off with you sounds like to me the distance was an excuse.
2007-03-26 08:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by luvmyboxer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if you wanna die then you dont need to be seeing him...thats not healthy...secondly....if the distance was too hard and caused the break up in the first place what makes you think it will work again...you seriously need to rethink what youre feeling cause if you are truly in love then distance is not an issue....
2007-03-26 09:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by cmgrpgdjg0406 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋