i really like this guy.the thing is he said he likes me and want to take this things slow.i understand that ,but he does call me or even ask me out. when ever we make plans to go out i wouldl not hear from him. he sometime text me and say he is sorry and will make it up to me but never do.what should i do? whats up with him? he claims that he does not have a girlfriend.he said that he doesnt want to get hurt. help me plz.
2007-03-26 08:46:27 · 16 answers · asked by macy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he really isn't interested, but at the same time he doesn't want to lose your affection. He wants to "have his cake and eat it too." Stop making plans with him...tell him you're busy...don't call him. I know it's hard when you really like someone, but he's handing you a bunch of B.S. by saying he wants to take things slow and does't want to get hurt. Guys just aren't that deep.
2007-03-26 08:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by DickJoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently both of you are very young and "don't know what to do" with this dating thing yet. Don't rush things. Spend time on other things besides worrying about it. Let everything happen naturally and when the time is right.
2007-03-26 15:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in a similar situation i think its a comitment thing i think that if they stay away a lot they will not fall for the girl. let him no u are not in a rush to take things serious and you just wana have fun. when a guy hears that they wana call ya more believe me!
2007-03-26 15:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by nicoley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something weird is going on with this guy. Either he DOES have a girlfriend or he is getting pressure from other people not to go out with you. I think you should totally ignore him, you'll find another guy.
2007-03-26 15:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see some red flags going up here, cause I sure do ! He is texting you instead of calling you to break the date, have you ever thought of why? Its alright to take it slow but it seems to me he doesnt want to take it anywhere....maybe its time to let go ! Do you want to waste your time with someone who doesnt want to be with you or would you rather be available to the possiblity of someone who does want to be with you.....if you allow his to string you along you wont allow yourself the opportunity to meet someone really great...Good luck ! And Let it Go
2007-03-26 15:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him go. If he's gonna play games with your emotions right from the start what do you think he can/will do if you are dating? Go for someone who keeps their word. No one can be that great and treat someone as he is treating you.
2007-03-26 15:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he didnt have the guts to tell you the truth and he is leading you on im sorry hun but stop calling and forget about him or try to forget about him he isnt a good guy and he is treating you badly
2007-03-26 15:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and honey I got to tell you, if he really wanted to see you, he would make more of a effort. Personally, I would move on. Best of Luck to ya!!!
2007-03-26 15:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by charm_link 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If he can't commit enough to even have a first date, there is no future for this relationship.
2007-03-26 15:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody cares about anybody else's love life unless it is as outrageous as ana nicole. that doesn't include you so nobody is interested. find another pursuit then come back tell us something interesting. go swim with the great whites or something.
2007-03-26 15:50:15 · answer #10 · answered by hillary c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋