my cousin is so depressed, she found out her boyfriend had cheated on her, and when she tried to confront him with it, he said the only reason he had that girlfriend is to get his mind off of her because he thinks about her too much and then he told her too chill or he's gonna break up with her, i dont think she has broken up with him yet, and ever since she has been with him she has been depressed and not as fun, what should i do, i wish she would dump him,, what do i do???
2007-03-26 08:46:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really need to talk to your cousin. If she's changed just for a guy, then he didn't really like her for who she is. She can do better. Tell her that, and give her lots of supporting advice that will point her in a happier direction (whatever way that may be).
2007-03-26 08:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by Rachael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cousin has problems. She should've been the one threatening to dump him, not the other way around. She must have some sort of insecurity issue or something. Thats a lame excuse by the bf by the way.
2007-03-26 15:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do for her is to be there for her.
You can try to show her that what he says does not make sense. He is ready to break up with her because she is upset about him cheating on her? How can that possibly be true or logical?
Do not push her too hard, but show her how bad he is and then let her decide for herself when it is time to end the relationship.
Take care,
Troy
2007-03-26 15:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best to stay out of it, but since she is kin, I understand your concern. The guy is a loser, you don't cheat on someone because you think of them to much. Now that is a new one on me. If you must tell her, then give her a hint to dump the chump.
2007-03-26 15:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to dump him he's not worth her time she should realize that he dosn't want to be w/ her anymore.
He used that mind off thing as an excuse.
Thats how it always starts. belive me I went through that w/ my x girl.
2007-03-26 15:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by The One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it... never a good thing getting involved with other peoples relationships.. :D
2007-03-26 15:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who gives a ****- tell her to get a new bf- quit wasting your time
2007-03-26 15:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and just tell her what you think she should do.
2007-03-26 15:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she has to dump him, he will never commit.
Good luck.
2007-03-26 15:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHEAT WITH HIM TO SHOW HER THAT HE'S A LIAR
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2007-03-26 15:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by smartbluewater 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋