Okay.. So today i was talkin to some of my guy friends and one of them cheated on their gurl and he was like what sucks is i really do like her.. And i was like well if u really liked her u wouldnt of cheated on her. And he said it was cuz she wouldnt put out. Then the other guy who is best friends with my ex was like ur ex really liked u but he still cheated on u cuz u wouldnt put out. ( which i already knew he cheated on me) So can a guy really like a gurl and cheat on them. I know i couldnt ever do that to a guy i really liked!
2007-03-26 08:43:32 · 7 answers · asked by SouTHerN_GurL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think a girl not putting out is a reason or an excuse for cheating on someone....i think if its a mistake then yea its not ok but its more reasonable...i would be more able to forgive him if it was a mistake then if he said that he did it cuz i wouldnt put out! but yes i do believe u can cheat on someone that you really like or really love...but like i said not if its cuz they wont put out, thats an excuse to have your cake and eat it to
2007-03-26 08:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Ashley♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure he can like the girl. But that does'nt mean he respects her especially when he is intimate with someone else. And just because the girl did'nt put out is not a valid reason for cheating, and whoever thinks that way is a jerk , dumb a$$ or a$$hole!
2007-03-26 08:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think so.if you really like someone you would not do anything to cause that person pain.having sex just for the sake of it cheapens it.sex should be special if your sweetheart is not ready for that you must respect it. but that does not give you an excuse to cheat,grow up if you think like that now how will you act if you are married and for medical reasons or your partner is on a trip or you are and they are not around for sex do you think you have the right to have sex with someone else because they want to.ever hear of aids? or paying child support to some skank cause you knocked her up and now you got a kid you dont want?
2007-03-26 08:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes guys can like you even love you and still cheat on you. Being with one person only is selfish. It used to be men would have up to 6 wives and everybody was happy. This monogamous thing is not right and we should be able to have many loves not just 1.
2007-03-26 08:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by BBW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat becasue there unhappy or unsatisfied cleary you can like someone and cheat but u dont love someone and cheat tell the guys to find girls that make them happy and fill there needs then they wont have to cheat
2007-03-26 08:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ,not from where I am standing a partner is a partner not someone you use when he/she feels like it.
2007-03-26 08:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably just an excuse
2007-03-26 08:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋