my fiance for the past five years hasn't ever given me a massage. iam so tired and exhausted. i work full time and have 3 kids. i need a massage badly, would i be wrong if i got one from my ex.. what that be cheating, what is your opinion. he wants a massage, but i refuse to satify him when he don't do it for me.
2007-03-26 08:40:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my fiance won't pay for a spa, he says it is too expensive
2007-03-26 08:46:31 · update #1
he is muslim and he said that it is a woman's job to give her man a massage and not him give me.
2007-03-26 09:22:22 · update #2
I've been married for 27 years and never got a massage from hubby. If I want one, I get one. I suggest you do the same and don't sweat the small stuff.
2007-03-26 08:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would offer you my services but unfortunately every time I have given a massage to a woman it has always turned to great sex very soon. Being that you are taken, I don't think it would be a good idea.
And I also don't think you should go back to your Ex for a massage either. Too risky.
If it means that much to you to get a massage then I think you should save up and just have one. No one has to know.
2007-03-27 09:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by Chandru M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st of all, have you ever asked your fiance to give you an massage even though he should already know to do that exspecially you work full-time.
2nd of all, yes it is wrong if you get a massage from your ex, your fiance will start thinking about things and wondering why you getting a massage from an ex when you can get it from him. no its not cheating but you know how men be. just think about if the tables was turned, what if he worked full-time and he wanted a massage from you but you dont give him one , what if he went to one of his ex, hoow would you feel or what would you think about the whole situation. you have to ask yourself those question
2007-03-26 15:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Angie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he could find out just how pleasant a massage could be, maybe he would do it. Have you tried to integrate it into lovemaking with some scented or flavored oils. There are many new items on the market now, do look. Can find many different kinds of small hand held massagers. Even at Walmarts.
2007-03-26 15:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by peach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you mind if he got a massage from his ex? If you love him you would. You know it's wrong girlfriend. Treat yourself to a day at the spa. I bet he get up off his butt and give you a massage next time!
2007-03-26 15:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been my experience that the only clients I've ever has that frett for paying for a professional massage are the ones that don't love themselves enough to do what it takes in money, time, and discipline to treat their body right to get healthy.
You know you need a massage; don't rely or become dependent on anyone else to fund your own health and peace of mind.
Go get a massage!
http://www.a-body-for-living.com/
2007-03-26 19:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jack Meoff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get you fiance to sit down and have a good talk with him .tell him you want your massage and if he is not willing then you will find someone else to do the job for him . ask him to explain his reluctance.to massage you.
2007-03-26 16:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by fushia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doing anything with an "X" is a no-no...but there are great massage parlors you can go to....maybe you and your fiance' should attend one together...and you're right about not giving him one if he wont give you one, but getting a massage from him, although is what you want, if the fact that you NEED one is stronger....go get one from a professional, and if he dont wanna go....you go alone...
2007-03-26 15:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get one from your ex comon this can be solved threw talking to each other let him know how u feel and your not happy a massage is an easy thing to do to make someone happy if he cant do it let him know u are not toally happy in the relationship
2007-03-26 15:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get one from an ex, if I were you. Ask your current man to give you a massage... if he does not, you need to go pay for one and have it done right.
Don't give him one till he gives you one!
2007-03-26 15:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋