ok so ive liked this girl for awhile now, kinda sense i met her, but ive really started to like her about a month or 2 ago. so last night i was over her house and we had some drinks and all nd it was just us two, and we were both kinda smashed. so on the couch we're both holding eachother kinda just talkin back and fourth kissin eachothers neck nd arms and i go for it, and we start to make out. we made out for about 30 mins non-stop untill she got a call and found out that it was 7:00. she said her mom was coming home so we fixed everything up as if nothing happened and as we were going to the drive way her mom pulls up. now i manage to talk to her mom alittle bit. so her mom and her self are goin in through the garage and she says," call me later" and i was all cool with that. and i left on my bike.
so my question is, do i wait for her call or should i call her up, and when and should i even go to the point of askin her out???
2007-03-26 08:37:56 · 11 answers · asked by joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nah im sorry what i ment to say in the detail was
she said that she would call me later, not the other way around
2007-03-26 08:48:03 · update #1
Hm. You and I both know, a few minutes later and Mom walking in the door, well, the scene might have been considerably different, right? Cool your heels for a few days, then give her a call...meet somewhere neutral, Starbucks, coffeeshop and JUST TALK...get to know who the person is you let your testoserone run wild with on the couch...
Kinda nice to like and KNOW, who you're makin it with, wouldn't you say? To allow yourself to end up in a compromising position where someone gets pregnant/another causes it, don't you think you need to be a bit more responsible in this regard?
Something to think about...
Grace
2007-03-26 08:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her today and ask if she wants to make plans to go out again. Or should I suggest that you actually take her 'out' this time instead of just hanging out at her house. It's not hard to find guys that want to hang out at a girl's house, make out or watch T.V. If you like this girl, you should be willing to make an effort to show her a good time. I don't know your age, based on your description of the events that occurred, but if she's old enough to drink she must be old enough to date. A gentlemen usually calls the following day. Ask her out for a 'proper date' for heaven's sake--what are you waiting for?!
2007-03-26 08:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she said "call me later" i would definately call her back. As far as asking her out, start off by asking her what her plans are for a certain day that you want to go out, and take her somewhere.......then, let that night happen, and ask her out within a few days after that.
2007-03-26 08:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call her, and tell her how much fun u had(least it sounds that way) and ask her if she'd like to go out sometime, n if she says yes, ask when is a good time for her. i think thats the biggest mistake nervous guys make. they ask would u like to go out sometime, and then just leave it up in the air so it gets really akward. don't do that.
2007-03-26 08:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by Tawddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her.... obviously her mom didnt kill her if she had the time to say call her, it was just as awkward for her as it was you, im sure. if things go "swell" with her on the phone.. ask her out in person the next day...
2007-03-26 08:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Megan28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 things;
DEFinately call her back, and DEFinately ask her out.
i always want a guy 2 call me even if i tell him ill call, so call her! if uv already made out then its a given she wants 2 go out, so go 4 it!
hearts!
lucie
2007-03-26 08:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lucie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her right now and tell her you enjoyed being with her the other night and that you would like to take her out. go for it.
2007-03-26 08:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her. she told you to, and i think that the guy should be the one calling & making the first move. if you want to ask her out, do it!!! don't be shy.. i mean you already made out with this girl. good luck
2007-03-26 08:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and ask her out!!!
2007-03-26 08:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you like her and she told you to call her, so um....call her...lol simple solution babe, good luck and if anything, wear protection, PLEASE
2007-03-26 08:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by TheBeautifulMess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋