My friend got dumped by her boyfriend..then HIS best friend asked to go out with her, but I fancy him! I told her to say NO..which she did..so that I could ask him out...but now they're going out...how can I ruin their relationship without them seeing it was me doing it???
2007-03-26 08:24:24 · 22 answers · asked by evil_loony_leo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also..her ex has a new girlfriend
2007-03-26 08:47:25 · update #1
ALSO..I don't care whether she is my BF or not..I want the guy!
2007-03-26 08:49:42 · update #2
and we're not in the same school with him
2007-03-26 08:51:30 · update #3
cause tension between them, tell him you heard she was saying bad things about him or that she was flirting with another guy,thatll cause bad tension
or get close to him and make her jealous
2007-03-26 08:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by hippy 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
well one thing is i would let it go...if u were meant 2 be with him this wouldnt of happened.but if u really want to do this then i tell u some ideas.i would do something that would make the other 1 look bad.like find something the other hates and make it look like the other did it.but i would talk 2 my friend about how u feel about her going out with a guy u really like but do whatever u want 2 do.
2007-03-26 15:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by crazy_for_naruto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if your friend wasn't going out with him, why would you want to go out with a guy that likes someone else? If you ruin their relationship and hook up with this guy you'll always have in the back of your mind that he really wants to be with your friend so I doubt it would work out for you. Just let it go and find someone else. This will save yourself the heartache. Also, why would you want to do something that would hurt your friend?
2007-03-26 15:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a really sweet friend! *insert sarcasm here*
Jeeze, with friends like you who needs enemies?? Let your friends be happy, boys aren't everything! And when you are older this guy won't matter.
But you aren't going to listen to me, or anyone else on Yahoo... you will try to break them up anyways.... so here you go:
Keep in mind you are about to lose your friend.
Keep your enemies close. Pretend to forgive and be very happy for your friend.... become close to her again. Get her to tell you EVERYTHING about the relationship. Try to get hold of her cellphone, without her knowing it, and text him a nasty message, make it sound like something she would say: and then delete the message from her phone. TELL NO ONE WHAT YOU ARE DOING.
Do this only once, and do this only if you're a good actress and can get away with lying and faking not to know anything about the message.
Leave notes, try to copy her handwriting and put it in his locker. LET NO ONE SEE YOU DO THIS. Say something nasty about him in it... Think of other things like this and he will think she is going crazy. Guys don't like crazy.
Make sure during this time you are able to befriend him... and then be a shoulder to cry on when he finally can't handle it anymore.
2007-03-26 15:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all if she's really your friend you shouldn't do that to her. Second of all, if he asked her out then he doesn't feel the same way about you as you do about him and you should let fate take its course. If you and him were meant to be then he will start flirting with you. But until then you should stay out of it. I'm really sorry but that's the best thing to do because you shouldn't ruin a friendship because of a boy.
2007-03-26 15:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by lovin' it 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont get involved in this...stay out of their relationship and let it run its course, if there meant to b together u cant get in between it and it will only make u look like a bad person...i kno its hard but try to stay away from the drama if u n him should b together u will
good luck
2007-03-26 15:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by serialshopper 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats a touchy one.. I would tell her flat out you like him (if you haven't already)..if she starts arguing I would turn around and make both of them jealous, I date her ex or someone she likes or one of the guys you like friends to make him jealous. That was really mean of her to do and she deserves it.
2007-03-26 15:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Diana 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't do that... a certain amount of jeaousy is normal between friends... but making her life miserable is not a very friendly thing to do... if it bothers you so much to be around her and him together.. find other friends... but don't make yourself out to be a cow...over a guy.. cause they are just not worth it... girlfriends are worth way more than any guy
2007-03-26 15:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
your friend is a ***** how can she do that to you your her friend and guys that you crush on are off limits to her if she went ahead to date him than you probably dont mean **** to her cuz friends dont go out and do that friends are loyal to eachother and shes not that! also idk i think you should let them be because if hes dating her he must like her and if you ask him out hell say no cuz he doesnt like you he likes your friend and arent you worried if you guys do go out that he would have feelings for her too
yaya
2007-03-26 15:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't! and yes I think that does mean you are jealous of you friend but it's okay you will eventually get over it.
2007-03-26 15:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by sunnysky4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a thought..
Stop trying to hurt your best friend,
Stop trying to date her sloppy seconds
and Find someone else who she would possibly be jealous of.
2007-03-26 15:31:25 · answer #11 · answered by Déjà Vu 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋