im scared that it will be awkward afterrrrwards... i am attracted to the guy but im not sure about my friend
2007-03-26 08:18:29 · 23 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldnt go there with a best Friend it could ruin it! I would just be open and talk to your friend and let her know how you feel and she what she says
2007-03-26 08:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sheri 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did not say you are old enough to decide on such an activity. I have done a threesome, and really loved it, but, it is important not to let it hurt a realtionship. I am having the same concerns, with a girlfriend, right now.Whos idea was it, to have a threesome?
2007-03-26 08:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Steve C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. That is a lucky lucky man.. if you like the guy sure go for it.. and if thats your best friend yeah.. i wish i was him...no realy if you do this.. then he will expect it again and again.. so be sure to prepair yourself for him asking again and again.. thats only every mans fantasy.. as for you friend is it a girl or guy? if its a girl it will be something you guys can talk about and laugh about later sort of bring you two closer as friends.. if its a guy.. then they're are going to tear you up... and want more and more.. and probly tell their best friends what they did and so on.. so its realy up to you.. i think everyone needs to experience this once in there life.. but you never know you may love it and want it again and again.. it is fun.. becareful thow as i said once the seal is broken guys will want it over and over again.. also that gives you the edge.. you can say i wont enless.. you do this or that..lol so have fun and hope this helps
2007-03-26 08:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by Dr.Icebreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. If you think its a bad idea now imagine what it'll be like when you have **** and genitals dangling and wafting in your face!
its all very well toying with the idea when you're in the pub with a few pints down you, completely different in a bedroom with a guy you want to have sex with but he is more interested in the other girl.
You know it would be a nightmare.
Good luck
2007-03-26 08:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by RedSnook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chicken. Threesomes are all about trust, what will happen if your guy is more attracted to your bf? What if your so turned on by bf you go lez? He gets his willy's off and thats it? Guys dig it more than chicks.
2007-03-26 08:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, geeze. Honey, why disrespect yourself like this? The guy only wants to make it with two girls...a fantasy! He's using you and your friend. So what if you're attracted to him. If he really thought that much of you and your friend, he wouldn't even bring up such a thing. You will definitely be sorry if you go that low. Godloveya.
2007-03-26 08:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why would you set yourself up to be used by some man? Tell this loser to get on his way! You deserve to be respected, and having group sex has nothing to do with respect. You are better than someone's brief entertainment!
2007-03-26 08:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by bevrossg 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you even need to do that? and how do you know your friend wants to be apart of that? Stick just to your boyfriend, because even when he's long gone and shes still your buddy (and you guys get over that phase) you will still always have that memory..
2007-03-26 08:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by Déjà Vu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONCE you do that your name will go around as a slu t., easy, loose girl, whore, skank. prositute. So do be careful unless you like thies lables. ANd lables sometimes last a life time.
2007-03-26 08:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were to have a three some it wouldn't be with one of my girlfriends that i see everyday...just because it could be awkward..do it with some girl that you know you might not see again....(your first time)
2007-03-26 08:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋