i'm on a similar search with my boyfriend. try personals websites and such. but be careful, there are a bunch of creeps out there. we have not found our girl yet, but we are hoping. you also need to have the ultimate say in whether or not to allow her into your relationship. also make sure that she is willing to be committed to you and only you, or else keep her other partner(s) in check. allowing her to have one other person would probably be best, as she might feel less important to you (as a couple) because being married. always make sure to be safe and get tested regularly, especially when letting another person into your relationship.
good luck! let me know if it turns out all right!
2007-04-03 02:20:11
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answered by .life.love&happiness. 3
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You might want to look for one of the big sites like AFF.com (adult friend finder) there are lots more but that's a large one.
One thing it takes a while to find this type of person. Many years ago when my girlfriend and I moved in with each other we quickly got interested in experimenting with others. We were fortunate enough to meet some nice couples and do some swaping. That working pretty well because all the couples were nice and our age.
We met a couple bi girls by placing an ad in the local personals section of the classified paper. (Pre Internet days). We did have girls respond and we were with them but they were all more into just one time or sometimes.
Like you were kind of searching for someone that would be more long term and living in. We got kind of a stroke of luck when the couple we had first been with broke up. The wife called us and said she was divorcing her husband. He was seeing other girls on the side and they were fighting in general. She was staying at her sisters but we talked to her about staying with us.
While my girlfriend was a little short, short hair strong personality and independent the other women was tall, skinny, submissive, very long hair. Before we only swap partners so the Bi thing was I bit new but both were interested.
For the first six months it worked out pretty good. There was no major jealousy but they were some things actually my girlfriend did not do very well and the other girl did extremely well. That created some tension but we are pretty open to everyone to be in bed could be in bed.
But getting three people to be compatible was a bit difficult. She did like the smoke some pot and that increased... especially before sex. We didn't smoke so that was a bit of a turn off on the other hand when she was high she was very sexual and wild.
Eventually to start seeing her husband again and sleeping with him. This annoyed us because he was of course sleeping around. Eventually had to break it off and interestingly enough she never went back with her husband.
Mark Burnett
author - GirlsTellAll.com
2007-04-01 14:45:04
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answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3
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You shuld join sites of swingers and advertise there for your likings and dislkings. Just type swingers in UK at yahoo or google. Here is one:
http://www.swingers.co.uk/
All the best!/
2007-03-27 03:41:43
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answered by Ebby 6
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You will have to keep looking & hope you meet the right lady.Good Luck
2007-04-03 02:05:32
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answered by Ollie 7
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why do you want more than just sex that is the best part of the thing
2007-04-03 04:00:53
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answered by Derek 1
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You just have to go to Brazil,it seams that there are lots you will get lost.
2007-03-26 08:27:58
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answered by R.Buterfly 1
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sorry to tell this because you are already commtted no one would like to be second.like me i want permanent not only sex
2007-04-02 22:06:20
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answered by joyce 1
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UK Contact pages
2007-03-27 07:06:31
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answered by Anonymous
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Google for it.
2007-04-02 23:29:53
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answered by Eugene 4
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your sick lady it will all bounce back on you
2007-04-03 04:19:40
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answered by srracvuee 7
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