okay... i asked a friend who isnt a junior to go with me to prom - so basicaly hes coming to MY prom... so that means i pay for his ticket right? hes still paying for tux,dinner and his share of the limo so thats what im assuming but it would be great for your opinion........
2007-03-26 08:14:45 · 12 answers · asked by lostxsummerlove 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
you ask you pay, no matter what gender asks
unless you want to split it 50-50 (like with the tux, dinner, etc, which is what he is doing already)
but yes, you pay for his ticket
2007-03-26 08:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by Rat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming the ticket shouldn't be that much. And even if it is, it's not nearly as much as tux, dinner, and a limo. That's ridiculous. If you wanted him to go I say you pay his way.
2007-03-26 15:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by big bang 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Asking someone to an event is just like inviting him to your home. You're the host and he's the guest. Guests don't pay. Instead, they take their turn being your host later on.
Equality comes from taking turns providing hospitality. Not by doing away with hospitality, as some would have you do.
2007-03-26 21:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should pay for his ticket. He should pay for the tuxedo. the limo I'm not sure I kinda think so. But if he does offer to help pay for the limo. It would be nice if you bought his meal.
2007-03-30 01:27:02 · answer #4 · answered by sandy.d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My view is that anybody who asks somebody else out on a date, regardless of gender, is obligated to pay for the entire date. I think he should pay for his tuxedo but that is all. Since you did the asking, the dinner and limousine are your obligation.
2007-03-26 15:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by lmnop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds right to me; might offer to pay for your dinner if you were really nice about this and it's just a "friends" deal.
2007-03-26 15:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by wizjp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would anyone want to waste a boat load of money just for a prom? It should go towards college funds or someone who actually needs the money.
2007-03-26 18:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He just pays for his tux & your flowers you asked you pay just like if he asked he would be expected to pay.
2007-03-29 18:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1/2 & 1/2 is the most appropriate & fair way of handling any event.
2007-03-26 15:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you learn anything from me.....Is this...STOP referring youself as a GIRL.
Ask the same question with the word WOMAN. It changes everything.
Good Luck.
2007-03-26 15:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by nyc_carlitos 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋