Ok, I have a girlfriend but she lives on the other side of the world, is it normal to have "lust" for someone else when I'm going out with another person??
2007-03-26 07:46:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why be normal?
2007-03-26 07:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by element_op 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my book it's okay, but the last time I had a boyfriend was 4 years ago. I have a husband now, and once we started to date I never felt fond of anyone else just him. I would end the relationship and start it back up when she comes back into town. You are a man, you need to have a person you love around you. Your girlfriend might not be doing anything, but I'm sure she is thinking the same thing.
2007-03-26 14:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal to have lust for anyone you find desirable. It's whether or not you act on it that makes it a wrong or right action, depending on your personal morals and the understanding you have with your significant other.
I don't care who I'm with, I'm going to think George Clooney is hot. And Hugh Jackman as Wolverine...And...See? Oh, and the guy at the bookstore, too. : )
2007-03-26 14:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by kerridwen09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's normal. Do you love her? I know she is many miles away but break up with her before you decide to turn your lust into something else!
2007-03-26 14:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by Still Standing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a girlfriend on the other side of the world...assuming you don't see her (at all)...then yes its normal.
2007-03-26 14:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal because you want to fill that void of intimacy you have with your girlfriend-
But its not normal to act on it.
USE SELF CONTROL and don't ruin a relationship with something like this
2007-03-26 14:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by Dziner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is pretty normal. Especially if your in a long distance relationship.
2007-03-26 14:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal. I'm getting wet thinking about you right now!
2007-03-26 14:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure but civilization tries to act as if it isn't normal
2007-03-26 14:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal and understandable.
Not great for your girlfriend, though.
2007-03-26 14:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by Kayla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,, thats pretty normal
2007-03-26 14:49:09 · answer #11 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋