We went out for 1 month. He slept with a girl. He said that she provoked him, he said he didn't feel anything for her it was just "the moment" We stopped talking for about 1 month, i dumped him.After 3 weeks i took him back.She looked for him and threatend him telling him she would send the cops after him because he was 17 and she was 13. He would see her whenever she wanted because he was afraid. But he would always tell me he loved me and i was the one and he didn't do it again 11 months passed and we got married. Do you think that was the right thing to do? Now he doesn't go out unless it is with me.
2007-03-26 07:44:16 · 6 answers · asked by chikis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're being stupid. Of course you shouldn't have taken him back. Duh. He's manipulating you.
2007-03-26 07:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by elvenjewl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The natural thing do say is dont take him back, but many people dont understand that it is hard especially when you love them so much. Well I found out my ex-boyfriend cheated on me back in January. I broke up with him , and I forgave him and we got back together the beggining of March. Well about 4 days ago I found out that he still was cheating. So I was heartbroken, hurt still am I had hopes that he would be honest with me this time but I was wrong. But at the same time I love him so much that I would feel worse if I wouldnt have gave him a second chance. He failed me, he betrayed me and I didn't. What I'm trying to say is that you did what your heart told you to do, you love your husband and you decided to give him another opportunity. Well trust him, believe and have faith that he will not do it again, and if he does just remember that first time that he did, and you survived. And remember that he failed a second time not you... I hope you understand what I'm trying to say...
God Bless
2007-03-26 15:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Alex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I belive once a cheat always a cheat , keep a very close eye on him, tell you the truth , I wouldn't take him back , if it was to save my own life.
2007-03-26 14:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! well only you can know if its the right thing...11 months is long time, only u know if he has changed and if your relationship is working?
2007-03-26 14:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by kaykay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not have taken him back. He's a liar and a cheat and that won't change.
Why on earth would you marry him??????
2007-03-26 14:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2007-03-26 14:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋