I want to marry but dont know where is my perfect match? do i search online or what?
2007-03-26 07:41:27 · 23 answers · asked by friend4ev 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I tried 3 girls online and 3 of them lied lolzzz i spent 7 years in these 3 relationships but still i hope i will get one, oneday but my desires are somone from out of here and honest
2007-03-26 07:57:24 · update #1
First of all, to get married just to be married and have a wife is dooming your marriage to fail before it even starts. This is the reason the divorce rate is so high. People are getting married for the wrong reasons.
I think you need to find out what true love really is and isn't. Read in the Bible I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter" where it says love is patient and kind and seeks not its own way at the expense of others. It isn't boastful or proud and always believes in the positive. This love is such that it will gladly give its own life to save the life of another. It says of faith, hope and love that that greatest is love. It is this kind of love that has kept my wife and I married for over 28 years.
Now to find a woman who has this kind of love, I suggest you find a Bible believing church and join the singles group there. You will find that most of the women there will be practicing this kind of love and expecting it in return. If you practice it, you will then find your true love, though nothing is completely 100% guaranteed even in a church, for divorce happens there too, unfortunately. Give this a try. I think you will find it better than dating services, the bar scene, or other questionable pursuits.
2007-03-26 07:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck! If you are looking for a wife you are looking for a needle in a very hugh and high haystack. I have been married too many times that I gave up. No more. I had your attitude asking everyone your question about where I could find a wife, and I listened and always ended up with a bad deal. The most extraordinary experience I had and will never forget is when I thought I'd found the most wonderful thing in the world. I met her at Taget store, and I even helped her pick clothes for her birthday, and she said that she fell in love with me, just like that, and she was really looking like too cool for me, so, I fell for her, then after I popped the big question if she would marry me, she said, sure, that'd be great, or so she said back then when that happened. I married her and then she turned into a bad cup of apples and pineapples. I will spare you the details and warn you to not jump into anything too quickly or you will be sorry.
2007-03-26 07:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by Pink Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to find love. Don't concentrate so much on the fact that you want a wife. My advice get out a little. Meet some people and know what you would like to have with someone. That special person is out there just don't try so hard. Be a friend show some love and best of all wish for happiness.
2007-03-26 07:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go that fast. Take it a step at a time, first you've got to know the girl and take her out on a date. Plus it depends, if there are any attractive girls around your area, if so than its time to make your move, the only way you can attract a girl is if you just act like yourself, most of all DON'T be shy.
You could try on line dating, it might help too.
Don't worry you'll find someone soon!!!! ^_^
Hope this has helped you!!!
2007-03-26 09:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Chucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you are skipping some steps here. Back up. Don't search for a wife. Search for a date. Go out on dates...lots of them. Find a girl you are attracted to and go out on a date to find out if you have anything in common....if you find one that you like, then try to ask her out again. This is how you get to know someone. It may turn out that you are not compatible with this person as a husband. She may just be more a friend. You may find out that you don't like her at all. Just keep dating and then move on from there...if you fall in love with someone, and the relationship seems to stand the test of time....then maybe it can escalate from there. First you date...then you like someone/maybe they like you back...then maybe comes love, if you are lucky...then marriage.
But if love is not what you are looking for, then you can always Google "Mail Order Brides." You can buy a wife. Most come from Russia, I think.
2007-03-26 07:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by Courtney 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U do not know how to search. A wife provides u with love and happiness. If a girl lies, it does not mean she will be a bad wife. Many girls are like that, maybe all girls are like that, they lie when it pleases them, so forget marriage, u will never find a girl that does not lie.
2007-03-28 02:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't just wake up & say "Hey, I think I'll get married!" And you def don't go looking for love, love will find you when you least expect it... Of course if you're not looking for love, just an underwear picker upper and a chef you can order a foreign wife online...
2007-03-26 07:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by ms.beverlyhills 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to India and get an arranged marriage. Seriously. Their divorce rate is waaaaay lower than ours. They almost never marry out of love there, but they learn to love each other.
2007-03-26 07:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by sippigrrrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First enquiry your relatives and if you are settled and well placed in life, then go for online with your full details. Always take advice of your good and well wishing friends and then proceed.
2007-03-29 22:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by sr50kandala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tried 3 girls on line still did not got a lesson.
2007-03-27 01:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by toploser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋