my friend and i are just that friends but with benefits but now i want it to be more, what do i do?

Question

he has been there for me the last year throughout a horrible divorce, when we first started we were just that f**k buddies. we've never discussed what would happen if he met someone else or vice versa or either of us wanted it to be something more. i dont know how to tell him i want us to be more than just f**k buddies. what do i do?

Answer 1

well ask him does he see himself being serious with you and see what he says and how he acts me and my now fiancee were just f*ck buddies at first then he started wanting to spend more time together and calling to talk and somedays we'd hangout and not fool around after 5 months he asked me to marry him thing is right now im 8 moths pregnant and i was in a horrible marriage when we met now we have our baby on the way and a nice life together it depends on the guys not all guys are like i don't want you cause i already had you so see what page he is on good luck.

Answer 2

your changing the rules and you should prepare yourself for the relationship to be over. If he doesnt want more than it is now, you should end. A friends with benefits relationship has no place for emotions of wanting to be with them in any other way than the nature of the relationship in itself.

Answer 3

I suggest a few hints and then if that does not work, then tell him how you are feeling. It is better to get it out in the open so you can deal with it.

Answer 4

Get used to the fact that you can forget it.......you lost his respect when you started sleeping with him "no strings attached"....he might like fuking you, but he sure as hell doesn't respect you the way a man respects a woman he LOVES.

Answer 5

screw his brians out then politly ask if hes ever thought about wanting more then what you just finished---good luck