i have been made fun of my enitre life and i want to get over that. but i dont know how. and i keep on thing about when i was younger and i had an entire school hate me. and that iwas in 6th grade. i dont know what to do and i also have alot of fears. like asking people things talking to people i dont know. and stuff like that.
pleaz help
2007-03-26 07:23:19 · 8 answers · asked by emo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well in time you will get over it. when you get good and out of school, what you did then means nothing. u will make new friends. usually you don't even keep in touch with many old school friends. don't worry you will get more confident in time. Try getting a hobbie or joining some kind of team and meet new people. what do you enjoy doing? the only way to learn is to ask people questions. I am starting a new job right now and I ask probably some really dumb questions but you know what? I have to in order to understand it. thats the only way to get smarter! if people make fun its because they lack confidence and probably envy the fact that you do! Most people love getting to know someone new! I know I do!
2007-03-26 07:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by - 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T KNOW HOW IT HAPPENED BUT.....I WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING DURING GRADE SCHOOL I'm NOW ALMOST 40YRS OLD AND SOMETIMES I STILL THINK ABOUT THOSE PEOPLE WHO USE TO MAKE FUN OF ME WHEN i WAS IN SCHOOL....WHEN I WAS 18 I MOVED AWAY JUST BEFORE GRADUATION GOT MARRIED HAD KIDS GOT DIVORCED MOVED AROUND FEW TIMES....NOW I'M BACK I MOV ED BACK TO MY HOME TOWN RIGHT DOWN THE STREET FROM THE TWO SCHOOLS THAT I SUFFERED THE MOST AND YOU KNOW WHAT IT FEELS GOOD TO BE HOME AND TO FEEL LIKE I BELONG I LOOK AROUND AND I DON'T SEE THOSE NASTY PEOPLE ANY MORE ONCE IN A WHILE I'LL HEAR SOMETHING ABOUT THEM BUT THEY DON'T SOUND ANY BETTE5 OFF THANT i AM RIGHT NOW YOU JUST HAVE TO LET IT GO TRY TO PHYCH YOU SELF UP TO BE SOME ON YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN BEFORE START OUT YOUR DAY WITH AN ''''I AM'''' STATEMENT SIT DOWN AND LIST THE THINGS THAT YOU BELIEVE ARE TRUE ABOUT YOUR SELF LIKE...
I AM ME
I AM ALIVE
I AM A GOOD KIND AND LOVING PERSON
I AM GOING TO FACE THIS DAY LIKE NO DAY BEFORE
AND AS YOU MAKE YOUR LIST FEEL IT REMEMBER IT AS YOU WALK OUT THE DOOR TELL YOUR SELF THAT YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE BETTER THAT THOSE PEOPLE THAT WERE SO AWFUL TO HAVE JUG ED YOU .....MAYBE DO SOMETHING FOR SOMEONE THAT YOU DON'T KNOW IT FEELS GOOD IF YOU DO GOOD FOR PEOPLE IT CHANGES WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU FEEL AB OUT YOUR SELF......GOOD LUCK!!!
REMEMBER YOU ARE WORTH IT!!!
2007-03-26 07:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way. Those who make fun of you are either jealous of you or just plain stupid (ignorant). Your special a one of a kind person remember that. Take your fears one at a time for example talking to people. Talk to one person even if it's just a store clerk. Baby step one person a day then build to 2 and so on. You can do that with any fear.
2007-03-26 07:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
When I was younger it happened to me too . What I did instead of running away or crying I stood there and laughed right along with them . They all thought I was nuts but soon it all stopped . There is a saying that goes " He who laughs last also laughs the loudest ". Start ignoring them and develop courage to stand up for yourself . Just something for you to remember always they are the losers not you but when you feed into it it gives them power .
Small minds talk about people
Average minds talk about events
Bright minds talk about the future
2007-03-26 07:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to metallica ,blitzkrieg.its a song,and then get even!! with the people that made fun of you.or just go somewhere else.
2007-03-26 07:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably fat & ugly. Quit your bitching and get over it. You have a lot of shortcomings, but deal with it. We all can't be beautiful, you fat hosebeast!! How 'bout you get over yourself and go eat another package of dingdongs!!!
2007-03-26 07:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by slikk pikka 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your nic says it all
as long as you see yourself in that role, you're life will never change
2007-03-26 07:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by ann s 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont get over it " GET EVEN".. HA ha ha
2007-03-26 07:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Lil' K. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋