Do you ever think about hurting yourself or what would happen if you did get hurt? Would your bf/gf coem to the hospital, would they take care of you, would they worry about you? If you died would they mourn over you?
2007-03-26 07:22:56 · 9 answers · asked by dvnlady 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do wonder how my boyfriend woul react if I were in a seious accident or if I died. He is not the most outgoing person when it comes to his feelings. I would never intentionally hurt myself just to find out...that crazy. I hope you know better, honey you are gonna catch hell for this question on here.
2007-03-26 07:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by ladyjno7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think about it. I know my bf cares. It doesn't really matter to me if he doesn't mourn over me when I'm gone. I'll be dead, why would I care?
If you're having these thoughts, it shows that you have a lot of insecurities about your relationship. This can either be due to the fact that he isn't really into the relationship as much as you, or it's because you're just naturally insecure. You may want to see a counselor. Sounds like you're a little depressed too.
2007-03-26 07:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to wonder about such a thing, it is apparent that the friendship, or relationship with the person is not very strong. If you really do have a true friendship or relationship, there would be no question at all the they would come visit you or have a concern about you.
If you have to wonder about it, then the friend you currently have is not too much of a friend or is not very close to you.
Things like this should be obvious...and you need not have to wonder.
2007-03-26 07:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked my boyfriend what would happen if I was in a car accident and was close to death. He said that he would stay by my side in the hospital and if I died he would spend a lot of time crying and mourning... I would be devastated if he died and would spend every moment of the rest of his life by his hospital bed!
2007-03-26 07:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
form of similar yet no longer really. XP My female friend wrote me a note about each and each of the flaws she ever needs to do with me. and prefer... compared to sexual or some thing . =S It became really sweet and romantic. extraordinarily because she's a superior author. =D
2016-12-02 20:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by luci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder the same thing. If you really are wondering that its kind of bad sign in the relationship huh? That shouldn't really be a question - and if it is - we both need to move on!
2007-03-26 07:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by stepss1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine wouldn't give two craps about me if I ended up in the hospital. I know it sounds negative but it is also the truth.
MJ
2007-03-26 07:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do wonder about it...right now i know my girl would be there for me because last time when i got hurt she was there for me and helped me get better and i know that i would be there for her too
2007-03-26 07:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that how you want to find out if you're loved? You shouldn't "wonder" you should "know".
2007-03-26 07:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋