ok so my bf and i have been together for 15 months and he is on the baseball team and i never see him anymore and he used to be at my house all the time, like no joke everyday and now when ever we go out to eat it is always with the team, not get me wrong i dont have a problem with him wanting to be with his friends but i would like some more alone time....help!
2007-03-26 07:11:14 · 15 answers · asked by tee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how you feel. Let him know that you miss being alone together instead of with all the guys.
2007-03-26 07:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply tell him you want more time, this may be planned time or something which is fine he sounds like he has a full active schedule. Lots of women out there have boring men and alls they do is stay inside and do nothing. At least you're getting out and doing things and being social. It's not quite as bad as you might think, but yes you do need alone time.
2007-03-26 07:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By compromising & asking him to compromise. "If we go out with the team Friday night can we spend Saturday night with just the 2 of us?" Let him know that you appreciate the need for "boy time" and that its good to have, but that you want to have some time too! Maybe let him have alone boy time too - they need that, but in return ask & you should be able to expect personal time. He is just probably getting wrapped up in this new world & is not realizing how much of the time is being sucked away.
2007-03-26 07:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by stepss1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I know I sound old, but you have plenty of time for boyfriends later in life. Don't wait on a guy to give you his time. You could be doing alot more stuff with all the free time you have now. If he is doing his thing then do your own thing. Trust me, when you get married there is gonna be plenty of time to spend with someone you love.
2007-03-26 07:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by rollingx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to him then that you feel you're spending less and less time together and that you want to spend some time with each other when its just the two of you rather than with all his team-mates. Explain that while you don't mind him spending some time with his team-mates off-pitch, you're his girlfriend and he needs to devote a little bit more time to you as well.
2007-03-26 07:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you let him know how you feel? Have you expressed your thoughts to him and really sat down and talked with him about your relationship with him? Have you really asked him how he feels about you and maybe why he is acting the way he is acting? Don't you think it would be a good idea to talk to him and get things sorted out between you and express your feelings toward each other?
2007-03-26 07:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about your feelings. Things seem a little one sided right now. Perhaps it will change after a while, or perhaps it won't. His behavior may be a portent of things to come. Best to talk it over. Then you will know for sure.
2007-03-26 07:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the most important thing is that you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and all but if you dont feel that you can t just whenever you go out and he goes with his friends just uhh tell him hey lets go somewhere by ourselfs and see what he says...
2007-03-26 07:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by CrIsTy O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you miss how you used to spend so much time together. Tell him it meant alot to you that he used to want to be with you all of the time....
2007-03-26 07:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the baseball team
2007-03-26 07:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋