I find these really terrible guys even when I'm not looking. When I meet them, they seem okay so I give them a chance. Then it turns out they have everything I do not want in a person. I am not speaking as in looks but just personality wise and how they treat people. Is there something I could be doing that would keep attracting these type of people? I have met them through other people, the gym, etc. So it is not just one place I am going. I am a sweet, nice girl. I dress very classy when I go out so it is not like I am letting everything hang out for all to see. Could it be something I am doing or is the number of jerks rising?
2007-03-26 07:10:09 · 5 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jen,
You seemed to be attracted to the same type of personality since this happens to you frequently. The whole "give them a chance" part is the telling part. Perhaps you need to just hang out with a guy or two as "just friends" so you can see how the nice guys operate.
2007-03-26 07:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I realized that guys are likes leaves on a tree. They stay on the tree for a while, then they fall to the ground. So I just sweep them up and throw them in the trash bag.
2007-03-26 07:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny how when we devalued the male in our society, we thought it would have no effect...
You know how advertisers empower woman today...just like a Jerry Springer show...make your man/boyfriend look stupid, and don't you feel GOOD! And, oh, who can I rip into NOW!
I am educated, "good-looking", articulate, thoughtful, have a decent heart...and you now what? 95% of woman today, that's NOT what they want.
You and I are like round pegs in a square world. Pity your in TX!
2007-03-26 07:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys trya dn put a glaze over themselves to amek them look like the perfect guy. even though they usually arn't. by all the exp. u say u got you should try and figure out before u get involved
2007-03-26 07:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kenyon M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey jenn, u posted this already
maybe it's time to try chris handsome out
2007-03-26 07:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋