one of my good friends is going out with the guy i have crushed on for about two years. as a matter of fact they started dating because she was talking to him for me.
saturday night i went out to the club and i saw him there, she's in cali anyways i asked him to dance and we ended up dancing 3 times to at least 15+ songs. we ended up pushing down a divider... hah holding hands touching rubbbing the whole 9 only thing is we didnt kiss... were we wrong? he and i talked about it and he deffinetley sounded guilty should i be?
2007-03-26 07:08:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to think about friendship in a case like this. Yes you guys danced together but answer this would you be mad at your friend for doing what you did to say your boyfriend? If the answer is yes then it was wrong.
2007-03-26 07:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see how your feeling were hurt that your friend did this to you, that is a very low thing to do...and what happend that night happend, good thing it didnt get further. dont feel bad let it go what she dosent know what hurt her. but you have to move on he's taken, and you dont want to get in the middle of a relationship. she was a bad friend for stealing your guy but in the end it wont make you feel better to hook up with him..you dont need to sink down to her level just move on and find a even better guy
2007-03-26 07:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Lovley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Your behavior was flirtatious, not friendly. Think about it this way: If you were dating a guy, and later saw a video of him and one of your friends behaving the same way you behaved... would you be upset? I'd say the answer to that is yes.
2007-03-26 07:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by Fee_Slice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you don't need to feel guilty yall only danced and touched each other u act as though you two kissed or as though yall had sex, if that was the case then you'd have something to feel guilty about.
2007-03-26 07:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to question your friendship. You guys are not very loyal to each other. She was wrong for going out with someone you were interested in first and you were wrong for making out/or wanting to with someone your friend is going out with.
2007-03-26 07:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're friend shouldn't have started going out w/ a guy you liked. why are you even friends w/ her after she did that? and if you aren't friends, you dont have to feel guilty.
he should feel guilty though, because he's getting you both. but if i were you, i wouldn't worry because she was sorta asking for it.
more power to ya.
2007-03-26 07:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋