My boyfriend and I have been dating over 5 months. He still hasn't told me he loves me. Is that unusual? Lately he's been acting differently and he doesn't come over as much as he used to. We still do things together but not as much. He started hangin' out with his friends more and finding "other" things he needs to get done. Should I worry that he's losing interest?
2007-03-26 07:01:23 · 9 answers · asked by aquestforaheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably isn't losing interest but it's mostly likely at the stage in your relationship where you start to pull away a bit, life starts to get back to normal, to the 'pre-new relationship' stage. When a relationship is new you want to spend every waking moment together - you forget about your friends and family and the things you used to do before you met that person - yes, even guys do this when they really like someone. But then things die down a bit and you remember you like cooking or pottery class and he remembers he likes sitting around with his boys scratching is a.ss and telling lies so you spend less time together. But don't worry about it. Unless the time you are spending together isn't as significant or seems "rote" then it's just the normal phase of the relationship. As for him telling you he loves you, it's only been 5 months. When he feels it, he'll tell you. If you feel it, then tell him. But don't' get mad if he doesn't say it back. It's best he doesn't lie to you and says it when he feels it. Good luck.
2007-03-26 07:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie honestly i think he has lost interest somewhat because when a guy is into you he puts you first. He finds ways and tries to see you no matter how many things he has to get done instead of making excuses for why he can't see you today. Well the fact that he is hanging out with his friends way more shows that he's trying to get his bachelor life back or maybe he feels smothered by you and is trying to get a little air. I would really watch him and prepare yourself for the worst because it kinda sounds like he's losing interest. As for the love question, in general it's not unusual since he may not feel as strongly about your relationship as you do.
2007-03-26 14:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by Dodgergurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's probably over- sorry. Infatuation lasts 3-6 months, so the fact that he's pulling away rather than moving closer means he's done. He never said he loved you, and now I doubt he ever will. Break it off- I'm sure he's hoping you will anyway to save him from doing it
2007-03-26 14:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
anything is possible, u can confront him, if ur that unsure, but guyz like women need their space too, even if it's to hang out with the guyz, or maybe he's feeling the pressure of his emotions growing for u and needs the x to sort them out good luck
2007-03-26 14:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by neici 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say if your his first girlfriend- maybe he is in mature and doesn't have girl/boy relationship experience.
Talk to him and if he continues this behavior then leave him and let life bring you a guy that does love you truly.
2007-03-26 14:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Taz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say you nailed it right on the head.......he's losing interest and just doesn't want to hurt your feelings....that or he's just a wuss that won't come out and say , hey, it's over!!! I'd leave him alone and move on!!!!! Good Luck!
2007-03-26 14:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think u shouldnt cuz if he wouldve beign losinginterest in u he would go over ur house at all, but why dont u try to talk to him about it
2007-03-26 14:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by bigshot_2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste another second worrying about it. Just move on.
2007-03-26 14:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by JoJo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes he may have found another girl,move on and find someone to love you
2007-03-26 14:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋