my b/f and I?

Question

My b/f and i have been togeathre for about 4 months an 2 week and i love him an he tells me he loves me too. but reclenty he has been acting weird. we talked an he says hes getting to attached an dosent want toget hurt i told him i loved him an wouldent hurt him an i was scared of it so andwe decied to not let it bother us! well here latley hes been acting weird again an not telling me everything when he goes out. he blew me off twice this weeken. then told me he wasent going to Drink @all on sunday he spent the day w/ me an took me out to eat.an he was talk to his bro.an said s/t about going to a club the night b4.an b4 all this about a month ago he told me he bought me a promise ring. an thats the last i ever hurd of it he never gave it to me or said anything about it again! so what do i do I need Advice on how to get him intrested in me MORE! again.should i try and tease him an not call him 4awhile an go out an not tell him everything im doing. an kinda blow him off on our next date

Answer 1

Dont play games. That's very high school. Be mature, talk to him about it. If it's really bothering you and things dont change, then move on.

I dont know why so many girls are on here trying to salvage relationships they're obviously not happy in and the guy obviously doesn't want to work on. If you both arent putting 100% into the relationship, then it's not worth either one of ya'lls time

Answer 2

You two have been together for just a little bit of time. Falling in love happens quick, and sometimes it scares people. Just let him know you're there and things don't have to get rushed. Stop pressuring him, because that could backfire. Don't blow him off if you want him to stay because he might take that as a sign to leave. Focus on being a good girlfriend, but also don't be blind to what signals he might really be sending.