Muslims plz...?

Question

What do u keep in mind when you do good deeds?
If your answer is Allah..how do u feel once u have done a good deed?
Do u feel happy if someone to whom you have done good is happy?
Do u feel angry if thaty person doesnt feel good and instead acts mean to u?
How do u get over this feeling?
How do u over come the fear of being hurt yourself when u do a god deed again?
How do u keep connected to ppl like this whose mood is everchanging like the weather?
Do most ppl feel this way or is it just me????

terribly sorry i meant good deed not god deed...

Alhamdulilah(All praises to Allah)!! SubhanAllah....Thank u For all replies...keep adding on... I have read some of the most beautiful replies...May God Bless u all since any good deed I might do Its reward shall InshAllah be given to u too.AMeen :)

thank u brother hurricane and sister roshni and sister Habayeb! May Allahs blessing be upon u and ur homes and ur relatives and friends! Amin. And I will contact u inshAllah brother hurricane..I need answers to a few questions..

Answer 1

In my very childhood my father advised me " do good to everyone and don't expect in return " and by following this i m much safe and happy..........and i think this answers your all questions...becuase when you don't expect in return, you don't get hurt.......and the bonus point is that when you get some good in return, its more than a joy........see Unexpeted things make you more happy !when i do good thing i just thing that this human owe some rights over me and i m just doing my duty ! but yes i do feel happy when i could get someone happy and i don't care much if the person acts mean......becuase in that case i prefer to "ignore" the person instead of picking a fight ! coz i respect my ego which don't let me to go to that low level !umm getting over this feeling is sometimes difficult but not impossible and thats my belief that nothing is impossible in this world........so i just go for a good movie, play with my nephew who is 4(btw he is a good cricketer lol) or talk to him ! Umm sis there is always a chance of getting hurt ..see the complexed people are always a problem.whether superioty or inferiority ......these are the people who have some disturbed personality and have potential of getting you hurt....better is if you find such person, keep a distance from him/her....and while doing good to anyone keep the above statement in mind....."never to expect in return" you won't get hurt !
Ohh i keep a distace from such people who change their mood like weather....if i can try to deal everyone nicely whatever mood i have then everyone can do and if someone can't do this, i prefer not to spend much time with her....LOL afterall i have my own ego :P And no all people feel the same becuase its normal human behaviour.....so don't worry about it........I think you are a senstive girl and got hurt by your friend......but listen ....Be strong to that extend that everyone would feel proud of having you as a freind, never let yourself get any kind of complex in life.....if you are weak in one thing , you would be the best in other..Always look at the positive side of everyone and yours as well.....and welcome the criticism and try to overcome your weakness.and last but not the least......try to be very veyr good human , be sincere to everyone and try not to hurt anyone deliberatly ....and yes Never feel shy in accepting your mistake and never hasitate to say "sorry" when you finf that you were wrong !
LOL and i have spoken more than i should and going to get thumbs down for this now !
All the best !

Answer 2

If I do something to help someone and they do not appreciate it and instead hurt me, it does make me feel angry and I guess that would be a natural response from anyone. And its true that when I'm in a position like that I think about Allah and how he knows my good deed and it doesn't matter whether I get a good response from people. Considering that most of the time this happens with my family, I have no choice but to keep connected :P Its not just you, I've gone through the same thing and I'm sure most others have also

Answer 3

In the name of Allaah Most Benefit Most Merciful
All praise be to Allaah the Lord of all worlds
May Allaah's peace and blessing be upon His prophet, his family and companions

I feel good when I do a good deed, especially because I know that good deed means a lot in the qabr, and on the Day of Judgment.

I feel happy when someone to whom I did good is happy.

And if she/he's mean instead of that I am in defense, don't get offensive, because I did the hasanat in the name of Allah. But I do sometimes feel bad because of this people. In that moment I think, is his/her bad behaviour maybe bad for his/her realization of the truth. So that I know do I have a reason to be angry.

I get over that feeling in thinkig about that I did the good deed in the name of Allah, and if I could do more, I'd do more, inshaAllah.

If I think that my good deed could eventually be the reason for me to get hurt, I think about the consequences. If the good is bigger than bad, than the answer is clear. When I think on that, I try to be objective, because shaytaan uses every chance to prevent you doing good. And if can't prevent you doing good, he'll try to make you do something that's less worth.

I try to understand those people, how's their mood changing, so that I always can be prepared for them But if I'm not sure I dont do nothing. Because there is the cahnce to make it only worse.


I hope I could help you. If you want to, I'll inshaAllah, give a few links how to do da'wah best.

And all praise be to Allaah the Lord of all worlds
And may Allaah’s blessing be upon His prophet Muhammad, his family and companions

Answer 4

Asalamo Alikom
you should never do good deeds for anyone except Allah. You should never expect to be noticed or praised for the good deeds you have done. Speaking of people in general, I know a lot of people who do good deeds because they wants others to see and speak of them.
Doing a good deed means doing it from your heart and Allah will bless you even if the person you did a good deed for, treats you badly.

Answer 5

when a person does a good deeds they should keep in mind what this means for the here after, and bear in mind regardless what the response is from the person that inshallah allah will reward them. the akhira is what matters most it is the life that will last forever and then that is when the good deeds will matter. you shouldn't bear in mind what people are thinking or how they act towards you but your final aim.

Answer 6

Saying two+two equals four is correct action because it is speaking the truth or doing what is good.If you do good deeds, it is naturally expected act from good folks as such no reward should be expected and if you are saying two+two is four while making a judgement it is still better but if you are saying two+two is fourth while risking your own interests, then you demonstrate the sublime of your conviction.When someone is steadfast for the truth for peace in society, he demonstrates much exalted level of conduct.Everyone can feel the same as the matter is reduced to rudimentary mathematical proposition but in conduct of human relations,it is not as simple as it appears now;you need divine guidance to avoid wastage of time in experiencing the realities.

Answer 7

Jesus pbuh and all different prophets of The previous and New testomony (including some which at the instant are not deemed as prophets interior the previous testomony) are respected, respected and commemorated in Islam. No Muslim , for this reason, can say any element derogatory or under respectful approximately prophets of the Christian and Jewish faith. in addition all places holy to Christians and Jews additionally are held holy with the help of Muslims. The Koran forbade the Prophet pbuh to declare any element against the religion of individuals and with the help of that all and sundry Muslims might desire to desist from asserting derogatory and insulting issues approximately different religions and faiths.

Answer 8

yes i see what you mean.well,if you know you have done a good deed and the other doesnt accept it.
then i just think to myself,the important thing is,i will find this on the day of judgement.
also,i would think to myself,maybe that person was having a bad day,so its best to get over it and carry on
its like saying assalamu alaikum to a person,if they didnt answer you,know that the angels answered you back!And also you will get reward for senting salaam
always think and act for your reward,as we dont know how long we will live

Answer 9

I'm not Muslim but I get the Idea, and not only Muslims believe in a god and help. And when you do something good its not who you keep in mind is for what reason you did it. It could be for "Karma", feeling good, or the reason I do it is, because no one relay helps me so I don't what other people to not be helped and I feel happy inside like I did what I have proposed myself, help others. Well I don't get hurt ,because I only help people I know more or less (I wish I could help strengers but Im a bit shy).

Answer 10

Ever heard of God fearing person or Godly person is a simple answer to your question.
See how God helped you out to correct your mistyping is an example too, for those who understand.