Here's the scenario: Met this guy on the internet..we chatted for a couple of weeks. We got together and we saw each other pretty regular. (Considering he lives 50 miles away, we both have jobs & children.) After 2 months of this, things changed...he had to be out of the country for a death in the family,his self employed business of d.jing and inflatable shows are picking up and he's battling with his "ex" for permanent custody of his 3 kids. All of this I can understand, but he's stopped his phone calls, he doesn't call, text or respond to any contact on my part. I tell him I get frustrated that he never takes the time just to say "hi, what's up." I've asked him if I was just a "booty call" for him. Well, the other day he text me that it isn't working out because of the way I feel. However, I never said I wanted to break up!! How should I handle this??? I would even be willing to relocate for this man & he knows It. Please any input
2007-03-26 06:28:39 · 8 answers · asked by stoutunicorn 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i m a girl:.
2007-04-03 01:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by Hope Summer 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it to yourself love.....he's just not that into you anymore. Guys always do this thing like roaches on the wall.....when u turn on the lights, some stand really still as though if they don't move you won't see them!!! Men stop calling, txtng, communicating, and instead of us (women) taking it for what it really is we think they just need some time to get over whatever it is they need to get over. Him saying its not working because of how you feel is an excuse. He's either getn back with his ex or he has met someone else be it online or elsewhere. I would chalk this one up as a lesson and keep moving forward!!!
2007-04-03 12:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by Chen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, his reaction was typically male and is quite normal. Men do only communicate if they have something specific to commincocate. I know women feel different, but we really never "just call to say how are you", secondly it's a man's thing to reteat when things get pressing and back in our "cave" we sort things out and reappear. If you women put us under too much pressure, we feel that you want to control us and don't give us the space we need when we really need it, and then we might cut the lines.Feel out when you need to give him some space and don't cling on too much, that's a man's worst nightmare.
2007-04-03 10:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by Eugene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry this man is treating you like this. This is all down to him not paying you enough attention. Of course you will get insecure and thats a clever mans cue to do whats needed to make you feel secure. If he dosen't then I wouldn't bother with him. He won't change and to be honest it sounds like he has far too much drama in his life. A clever man who really likes you will take the time to say hi and check you're ok fairly regularly if you don't see him that much. Keep looking, you will find the right one eventually.
2007-03-26 13:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you doing?! think about your kids and be happy with "them" it just isnt worth it, dont get tied up with some jerk!
2007-04-03 10:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by Newtron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, what a jerk! Forget him!
2007-03-26 13:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by timisoreanca 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he does not sound like a keeper...
2007-03-26 13:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a jerk!!! forget about him find someone new.
2007-04-03 12:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by naughtykim_87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋